Book and movie recommendation: The Enchanted April/Enchanted April

I’ve heard about the book The Enchanted April by Elizabeth Von Arnim, and the movie based on it, in the past, but didn’t know what it was about. I wanted to give it a try after I read up on what the book is about earlier in the year.

I ended up really enjoying the book, so I rented the movie this week and liked it as well. The book was released in 1922 and, to me, was progressive in the idea of women needing to have their own free time.

The 1991 movie dropped the “The” and is just called Enchanted April but was exactly like the book, which was nice. They didn’t “modernize” it or add anything inappropriate. It was just subtle with wisps of suggestions of difficult or hard subjects but nothing blatantly dark or heavy, just like the book.

Both the book and the movie left me with a hopeful, uplifted, and relaxed feeling. They were both just sweet escapes that I would definitely read and watch again.

The book and movie are about four English women who rent a medieval castle in Italy for a month. The stay starts as a way for our two main characters, Mrs. Lotty Wilkins and Mrs. Rose Arbuthnot, to escape their mundane lives and dying love life with their husbands.

The two women have seen each other around their part of London but officially meet when Lotty approaches Rose  at a ladies’ club after she sees Rose looking at an ad Lotty also saw for the opportunity to rent the castle. Lotty bluntly tells Rose she knows she is also miserable and needs to do something for herself and suggests they split the cost to rent the castle for a month.

Rose is taken aback and initially declines.

In the book, Lotty pesters Rose a few more times before Rose finally relents and agrees to do it. The movie condensed that timetable a bit.

Lotty is married to a solicitor who is very strict about money, and she feels like he loves money and his work more than her. She’s going to pay for the castle out of her nest egg.

Rose is married to an author who writes memoirs about the mistress of kings and writes under a pen name. Rose is very religious and feels her husband’s work is a sin and she also feels he cares more about it than her, which he does. They have money so she’s going to pay for her part on her own

In the movie, he is attending a party held for him to honor his new book and meets Lady Caroline, which will come into play later.

The two women decide they can’t actually afford the castle on their own and invite two other women to join them – Lady Caroline, who wants to get away from the grabbing paws of lecherous men and Mrs. Fisher, an elderly widow who clings to the past and likes to name-drop all the famous poets and writers she’s known over the years.

One thing I will suggest whether you read the book or watch the movie, is to not go to worst-case scenarios. If you think something “untoward” is going to happen — it isn’t.

There are moments where I worried something painful was going to happen but, thankfully, it didn’t. Despite that there was still enough plot twist in the second half of the book to keep me interested.

This was not a fast book or movie by any means.

They are both very slow but still engaging, at least in my opinion.

The only slight complaint (very slight) I have about the book is how many times Lady Caroline and everyone around her point out how pretty she is. We got it. She’s gorgeous! Sheesh!

It’s an important plot point, though, because Lady Caroline is sick of only being pretty. She’s sick of men always grabbing at her and flirting with her and being all ridiculous around her because of her beauty.

One of the reasons she’s so snappy and snarky during the book is because of a side of her she calls “Scrap”, which is what Von Arnim calls her in the book when her mean or ‘saucy’ side comes out. It was a little confusing when she would switch back and forth with the names but I caught on fairly quickly and thought it was a very creative way to show the reader that Lady Caroline knows she’s sad and twisted upside, that she has this dark side to her, and doesn’t like it.

Yes, there are times the book seemed slightly repetitive (about Lady Caroline’s beauty and her hatred of her beauty — I kept thinking of that shampoo commercial from the 1990s… “Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.”), but I found the characters and their development so lovable I was willing to skim those paragraphs so I could find out it all turned out.

Polly Walker played Lady Caroline and, well, she is gorgeous.

Joan Plowright was absolutely perfect as Mrs. Fisher and I think that subconsciously I was picturing her already during the sections with Mrs. Fisher as I read the book even though I didn’t even know until I watched the movie that she was in it.

Josie Lawrence plays Lottie and Miranda Richardson portrays Rose. Alfred Molina portrays Lotty’s husband and reminds me of a nicer version of his character in Chocolat. Jim Broadbent is Rose’s husband.

There is a 1935 movie called Enchanted April but after reading about it, I don’t think I’ll watch it. It is based on a play that was based on the book and switches the occupations of the two husbands for some reason.

According to TCM, Von Arnim, who was born in Australia but lived in England, wrote the book while going though a rough time in her life.

The castle in The Enchanted April is called San Salvatore and Von Arnim named it after a castle she was staying in to recover from a domineering marriage to a German count who went to jail for fraud. The movie was actually shot in this same castle, which I just thought was so cool.

After the count died, Von Arnim started an affair with H.G. Wells and later with Sir Francis Russell, who she married impulsively and which ended in disaster. It was after the marriage with Russell ended that she wrote The Enchanted April.

Have you read the book or seen the movie?

What did you think of them?

Sources:

https://www.tcm.com/articles/183504/enchanted-april-1935

Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot May 8

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

When you post online, you expect people to be mean these days, but when they are, it still sometimes can be a shock or sting. Especially when what they are upset about isn’t that big of a deal.

Today I opened up my Facebook page and I had spelled the name of a celebrity featured in a video I shared wrong and instead of politely telling me I had made an error a person wrote, “Gerald McRaney would appreciate you spelling his name right.”

The person who wrote that seemed to be a woman in her 60s or 70s, someone who should know better, and I was shocked by how nasty it was that I actually teared up. It wasn’t necessarily that it was directed at me that hurt me, it was that it reminded online how cruel, hurtful, and mean people can really be. I didn’t even know this person. They don’t know me. Why would they speak that way to me?

I went offline for much of the day after that, but when I was online, I focused on being kinder in my responses and reactions to people so I won’t be like that woman, who is spreading negativity and making people feel awful.

I also stopped and thought about the times in the past that I have lashed out at people because I was annoyed about something else. I made a mental note to be/do better in the future.

Now, let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

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WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: Ink Torrents



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Shelbee is channeling her best Zombie (by The Cranberries that is!)

They’re Making Flower Petal Creations at Our Grand Lives!

I love Amy’s devotional coloring book!

I loved this inspirational post from Grace Filled Moments

Melynda is canning rhubarb! Yummmmm!

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Spring of Bette (Davis): Jezebel (1938). Otherwise known as the movie that made me say, “Well, that escalated fast.”

This spring, I have been watching Bette Davis movies, and this past weekend, I watched Jezebel from 1938.

Wow.  What a wild ride.

The tagline for this one could be — well, that escalated fast.

Especially as the movie gets toward the end.

It just races forward like a freight train out of control, but in a good way.

Bette stars in this one with a very serious Henry Fonda (I think he’s serious in every movie he is in).

George Brent, who was also in Dark Victory with her, is in this one too.

George Brent and Bette Davis.
This is not my photo. Copyright Warner Bros.

Our story takes place outside of New Orleans in 1852.

Bette portrays a woman named Julie who comes from a wealthy family and is engaged to a banker named Preston. Preston is often busy, and this irks Julie, who is very headstrong and self-centered.

When she is getting fitted for a long white ballgown she is supposed to wear to a special ball, she sees a red dress and decides she’s going to stand out and wear that one.

Everyone in the shop and in her family is horrified.

You just don’t wear red in “polite Southern society” at this or any ball.

Forget that, Julie says, even when Preston sees the dress and tells her there is no way she is wearing it. She is wearing it, she tells him, and that is that. The dress is gorgeous, even in black and white, by the way. I wanted to see it color and looked online, but couldn’t actually find an official photo of it anywhere. There are some colorizations of it, but those were done by others, that I can see.

A Photoshopped-colorized image of Julie’s forbidden red dress. Not my photo.

All of Bette’s clothes in this movie are stunning.

Back to the movie, though….Preston is furious but takes her to the ball anyhow. At the ball, people part like the Red Sea, not because they are impressed. They are scandalized by the dress and act like Julie is a — well, you know.

Preston returns Julie and her family home later that evening and says to Julie’s mother he wishes her a goodnight. To Julie, he says, “Goodbye, Julie.”

This is after they had known each other as children and always expected to marry. Oof!

Julie doesn’t believe it’s really happening, but things get real when Preston moves to the North to run a bank and leaves her behind.

I won’t ruin the rest of it for you. I will tell you that there is a reason the movie is called Jezebel and it is because Julie is called it by someone she knows.

Promotional image for Jezebel from Warner Bros.

For those who are not familiar with the name Jezebel, it refers to the wife of King Ahab of Israel, who was not a very nice woman at all. She would be called “immoral” by many.

I don’t tell you some of the details of the movie or the ending, but I will caution you that you need to fasten your seatbelt after this point in the movie if you do decide to watch it. There is going to be betrayal, talk of slavery failing the south on an economic level, slaves singing as part of the nightly entertainment, a yellow fever breakout, a dual, and so much more.

Your head is going to start spinning before it is all said and done.

Bette in her white dress. (Not my photo.)

Overall, I enjoyed the rush of this movie. I couldn’t look away. It was a bit like Gone with the Wind but shorter. I was somewhat horrified at how women were expected to act and dress a certain way during that time, but,  of course, knowing the history, I know it was true.

While I am on the subject of Gone with the Wind, Bette Davis tried out for the role of Scarlet, but didn’t get it.

That worked out well for her in the end. This movie was her first big-budget film, and she won an Oscar for it in 1939. Bette’s co-star, Fay Bainter, who played her aunt Belle, also won an Oscar for best supporting actress.

Vivien Leigh won hers in 1940 for playing Scarlet O’Hara in Gone With The Wind.

Henry Fonda was very good as the brooding Preston, who was also facing his changing ideas of what the South really was.

I haven’t seen him in a ton of movies, but the ones I have seen him in, he was a lot older, so it was fun to see him so young.

Henry Fonda and Bette Davis. (Copyright TCM)

The acting from all of the cast was really very strong, and pulled me right into the time period. The black actors were great but I have a bad feeling they didn’t get the credit they should have at the time.

Warner Bros. had started planning Jezebel as a way for Davis to break out in a big movie as far back as 1935. They were going to buy playwright Owen Davis Sr.’s failed play back then, but passed on it.

But then the book Gone With The Wind took off.

Warner Bros didn’t get the rights to that, so they went back to get the rights to Jezebel.

They hired one of Hollywood’s top directors of that time, William Wyler.

Bette and William started an affair and when he later married another actress, Bette was said to be devastated and in later years called him the love of her life. They paired up again in a professional capacity in The Letter (1940) and The Little Foxes (1941).

So far, I would say this one, next to It’s Love I’m After, is my favorite movie of Bette’s I’ve watched so far.

Up next, I am watching Dangerous.

My watch list for this feature:

It’s Love I’m After 

The  Working Man 

Another Man’s Poison 

Dark Victory

Jezebel

Dangerous (May 9)

The Letter (May 14)

Of Human Bondage (May 21)

Now, Voyager (May 28)


Sources:

https://www.tcm.com/articles/136752/the-essentials-jezebel

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Top Ten – Er – Eight Authors I wish were Still Writing Today

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl.

Today’s prompt is:  Authors You Wish Were Still Writing Today

I only came up with eight authors I wished were still writing, all of them long dead, but I think it’s a good list.

Agatha Christie

The fun she’d have with modern times and modern toys to mix in her plots. The only drawback is that some of her plot points might not work since we now have so many conveniences and cameras and things that could make getting away with murder even more difficult. That might be a challenge Agatha would love to take on, though.  

Margery Allingham

Margery would also love to use some of the more modern elements to knock off a few victims, I think. But she would write it in a much more poetic way than Agatha. This woman’s way with words….wow.

Erle Stanley Gardner

Perry Mason on his cellphone  telling Burger to stuff it where the sun don’t shine. Also, just more great stories with other characters — Bertha Cool on a podcast, telling everyone stories about her greatest cases.

L.M. Montgomery

I would love to read more sweet, touching stories by her. Whatever she wants to write. Clean, no swearing, just writing about every day life in a beautiful rural setting in Canada.

Donald Bain

Donald was a prolific ghost writer, but I just need him to write more Murder, She Wrote books that feel like authentic Jessica. I love how he makes her so real and fleshed out. He writes it from a first-person point of view and adds in her thoughts about her late husband Frank. She’s always so caring about her friends too. I mean, I really forget it is a man writing it. I feel like he’s truly seeing Jessica’s world through the eyes of a woman. I also love when he adds in history and facts about Maine or whatever city or country Jessica is visiting. He completely immerses you in the story.

Mildred Wirt Benson

I love Mildred’s children’s mystery books. If you don’t know, she was the author who helped create the Nancy Drew books and was the first Carolyn Keene. She later went on to write other children’s books with girl detectives, such as the Penny Parker series

I loved the plots she came up with and always find her plots in the Nancy Drew books so much better than ones written by other authors using the pseudonym.

Mildred wrote 130 books for juveniles and a few for adults. I hope to look up those adult ones soon.

J.R.R. Tolkien

I would love if Tolkien was still  writing and would infuse some of his wisdom and purity into fantasy books of today. He would, however, probably find some of his work edited so we don’t have to read so many descriptions of trees.

C.S. Lewis

I would love to particularly read Clive’s theological thoughts in relationship to the unique challenges of our modern world, which really aren’t that unique, but feel like they are. I would love to know what he thinks of the modern church, our crazy leaders, Christians who are so obsessed with politics that they’ve lost sight of Jesus…and so much more. I have a feeling he would anger so many people.

Are there any authors that you wish were still writing today?


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A Good Book and A Cup of Tea May Link Up

Welcome to the May link up for A Good Book And A Cup of Tea Bookish Link Party.

This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!).

Each link party will be open for a month.

My co-host for this event is Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs! You can link up with either of us!

1. For Bloggers, you can link unlimited posts related to books and reading. They can be older posts or newer posts. These can be posts about what you’re reading, book reviews, books you’ve added to your shelf, reading habits, what you’ve been reading, about trips to the bookstore, etc. You get the drift.

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When technology determines if your creativity is worthy or not, we have a problem

I shared this on my business Facebook account today because I am absolutely disgusted with AI and the push to integrate into everything we do.

I have another page on here where I share old movie and TV show content. About two weeks ago, Facebook told me they would not recommend that page or its content because its “technology” had determined my content was unoriginal.

I curate clips, write captions, create posts, etc. All by myself.

I don’t care that much if they recommend the age or not, but what upsets me is that the only thing I see on my feed for this page and my personal page now is AI slop. These are accounts that are 100 percent AI. They are making up information, creating fake images, and they are being recommended to me. They are being recommended. That is what Facebook wants. Fake information, photos, and garbage.

Facebook doesn’t care what kind of engagement it gets…as long as it gets it and what’s really disgusting is they are pushing out actual human beings from interacting with other human beings about topics they enjoy.

If you don’t see a bigger issue at hand here, an attempt to separate and isolate humans as a way to have more control over them, then I really feel you should look a little closer at it all.

It is so scary and dystopian to be told “technology has determined that you..” anything.

Calling me unoriginal is fine, but telling me a piece of technology determined what I was or was not, is not okay.

Sunday Bookends: Cat update, more Bette Davis movies

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

A little update on my cats – one of which I wore more extensively about in my post yesterday.

The youngest is acting a lot better but is still not 100 percent, though I’m not sure what 100 percent is for him since he’s always looked a bit rough and bedraggled since someone dropped him off at our house in October. Something is up, or down really, with his tail but he’s eating normally again and being a general nuisance.

The really sick, Scout, one ate a lot more food today and was actually cleaning herself which I haven’t seen her do in several days. She also made it downstairs for a few hours of snoozing on the couch before we rudely had to move her when we put some cat food near her and it spilled on her and the couch. She and the couch had to be cleaned and she growled at us why we did it and once put back down she disappeared upstairs onto our daughter’s bed.

What is funny about her picking our daughter’s room as her sick room, so to speak, is that she doesn’t like our daughter that much. She’s always concerned our daughter is going to scoop her up and carry her around like she did when we first adopted her as a kitten so she growls at her a lot.

At night, though, she waits until Little Miss is asleep and curls up against her butt and then hisses and smacks Little Miss’s feet if she moves.

She’s doing it this morning which shows me she is perking up some but also baffles me. I keep telling her if she doesn’t want to get kicked by Little Miss stretching then she needs to stop picking that spot to lay. She’s being a typical cat and giving me dirty looks and ignoring me.

I’m encouraged that just before I finished this post, she wanted to go outside and lay in the sun on the back porch. So far, cat number three, our oldest cat is doing okay.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

The Enchanted April by Elizabeth Van Arnim

Nancy’s Mysterious Letter by Carolyn Keene

In Progress

I am slow reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month. I am excited to start May!

Aloha Betrayal by Donald Bain, The Unselected Journals of Emma M. Lion by Beth Brower, and Thrush Green by Miss Read.

Up Soon

I’m actually not sure yet but I’ll keep you updated!

What The Family is Reading

Little Miss and I are still enjoying Heidi.

The Husband just finished First Blood by David Morrell.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

Last week I watched Vivacious Lady with Ginger Rogers and Jimmy Stewart and loved it. I couldn’t finish Dark Victory with Bette Davis because of the subject matter, but it was good as far as I watched it. I also watched Jezebel with Bette Davis. My son and I watched Office Space as well.

I started Now, Voyageur with Bette Davis last night and will finish it later today or tomorrow.

What I’ve Been Writing

Last week on the blog I shared:

Some Housekeeping

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What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


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Saturday Evening Chat: Two sick cats. This is getting weird.

Ya’ll, it’s been a week….as my Southern relatives might say.

I would say it’s been a month but we are in May now so April was a month…of good and bad, but when it comes to cats it was bad!

Not only did our youngest cat get sprayed with a skunk and then get an eye infection, he was also acting like he was in pain and sick this past week. Shortly after I noticed his issues, our second-oldest cat came down with something too, got worse and acted way worse than the youngest cat, and ended up at the vet with 104 degree fever.

This was all happening while Little Miss had a sore throat for two days and on one of those days refused to eat and almost passed out on me.

Scout, the older cat, is slowly recovering but I am still very concerned. She was given an antibiotic shot and a fever reducer and spends most of her time sleeping and eats only if we take food and water to her in Little Miss’s room where she has taken up residence.

The Husband drove the cat to the vet, which I felt awful about, because I had planned to take her later in the day. He’s been working full-time and rehearsing for a play and has barely been home because the bridge to get to the town where he works has been out, adding another half an hour to his 25-minute drive. That means he’s been staying in town after work to wait for the rehearsal to start. Rehearsals have been lasting until 9 or 10 and then he’s home at 11, falls asleep, gets up and starts over again.

He called the vet in the morning, though, and he had an opening so he took it and drove 45 minutes up and back to have her seen.

The vet really didn’t have an answer to why she had a fever, other than it must be an infection somewhere. That didn’t seem very thorough to me but at least they did something, I guess.

Scout was still very weak yesterday, so The Husband called and they said if there was no change to call again on Monday.

She did eat some food and drink some water, but then she lays back down again and passed out. It’s awful. This is the kitty who comes up to me when I am sitting in places where I can’t really hold her — like the toilet — and stretches both paws up at me as if asking for me to pick her up.

Sometimes I do even when it is inconvenient.

Then she likes to come up at 4 a.m. and curl up against my shoulder and insists, with little taps on my arm, that I pet her. She also pats my arm when she wants me to give her some of my food. Always very polite. I’ve never had a cat who did anything like that or a cat as cuddly as she is…or can be when she’s in the mood.

I am trying to be optimistic, but I have to be honest that I’m very worried we could lose her.

I’ve had Scout since she was a kitten. I saw her photo on the site of a rescue shelter near us and said I had to have her. I can’t believe I did that as I am the one who always says we don’t need more pets. We got her, during COVID, and she used to lay on my chest to keep like I was her mom. She kept doing it until she was just too big. She’s a very long, polydactyl, Tuxedo cat. When she stretches her body full length, she can reach our doorknobs and rattle them to let us know she wants to go out.

She’s our cat that got stuck in a tall tree our front and our neighbor, who is on the borough council, called the fire company to use their truck ladder to bring her down.

What’s odd is that right before Scout got sick, my dad had to take his outdoor cat to the vet because she seemed sick and had a cold like illness (not distemper) and had been cuddling with Little Miss. So now we are trying to figure if we brought Dad’s cat’s illness home to our cats.

Regardless, they are being treated and hopefully will be on the mend soon.

This week was our possible last week of a weekly art class that Little Miss has been taking. I say possible because I signed Little Miss up for horse riding lessons on the same day as the art classes, but the opposite direction. I only did that because the art class was starting a medium she’s already done and it was a new four-week session and because I hate the road we have to drive on to get there. Also, Little Miss has been asking for horse-riding lessons for years.

But now Little Miss says she’s disappointed to miss out on the next pottery class. So I may have to somehow try to get her to both classes or just one. We will see how it goes. I’m grateful for the opportunities but I do wish they weren’t so far away from where we live. Oh well! Such is the life of a homeschooling family in a rural area.

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I hope having a good week last week and having a good week this week!

Classic Movie Impressions. Spring of Bette: Dark Victory or the movie I couldn’t finish because it hit too close to home

Full disclaimer this week: the subject matter of this movie made it too difficult for me to watch all the way through, so I’m telling you what the movie is about, but I skimmed a lot of this movie.

I’ve been watching Bette Davis movies for spring and this week the one I chose was Dark Victory, released in 1939.

Sadly, for personal reasons, I could not make it all the way through this one. I did read what it was about before watching it, and I thought I could handle it, but I could not.

Bette acted well in this one — though I do think she is a tad bit overacting at times in many of her films. That is her style, so it’s okay, but her delivery is often more abrasive than I think it needs to be.

In this film, she had reason to be abrasive.

It is not a spoiler to say that in this movie, Bette’s character is diagnosed with a brain tumor.

It’s in the description of the movie online, such as Google:

“Socialite Judith Traherne (Bette Davis) lives a lavish but emotionally empty life. Riding horses is one of her few joys, and her stable master (Humphrey Bogart) is secretly in love with her. Told she has a brain tumor by her doctor, Frederick Steele (George Brent), Judith becomes distraught. After she decides to have surgery to remove the tumor, Judith realizes she is in love with Dr. Steele, but more troubling medical news may sabotage her new relationship, and her second chance at life.”

This is not a totally accurate description, however. Let me preface all this by saying the next bit will be a spoiler of sorts so if you haven’t seen the movie and want to, you will want to skip this.

Are you ready?

I’m going to tell you something about the movie that the description didn’t. Ready?

You sure?

Okay….

Here goes….

Judith is told by her doctor that she is fine when in reality she has a cancerous brain tumor that will take her life in about 10 months. Dr. Steele wants her to live her life fully, believing she is fine because, I guess, he is in love with her love of life (even though a lot of it was drinking and sleeping around) and with her and doesn’t want to see the light go out of her when she finds out she is dying. He tells her sister she is dying because he feels guilty for lying and then he makes her also lie about it so Judith will have a good life until the end.

I think it is horrible and cruel, honestly, but at the same time, I understand Dr. Steele’s reasoning.

This movie is very melodramatic with a lot of tearjerker moments that I struggled with because when I worked for a newspaper, I had to write several stories about fundraisers for a little boy who was born with a brain tumor.

He was an amazing little boy, wise beyond his years. He died when he was seven years old, and not long after that his mother was diagnosed with the same type of brain tumor and died a few years later. She’d had another son, married another man (the first son’s father was a total dirt bag who just recently was charged with some inappropriate behavior as a judge and I am so happy about that), and was just starting to have her happy ending when she was diagnosed. I wrote a lot of stories about fundraisers for her, after I interviewed her about the death of her son. He had become somewhat of a community celebrity because of all his issues and the fundraisers held for him.

His name was Jordan. Her name was Jodi. They had the same brain tumor that this character has.

This sounds very selfish after all they went through, but I think I still have some PTSD after getting to know them, writing stories about them, and then having them both die. They deserved so much more.

Even writing all this out makes me sick to my stomach and has me crying so that’s the reason I couldn’t stomach this movie beyond skimming through it.

Back to the movie before I make my keyboard a safety hazard from all the wetness.

According to TCM, Bette and her co-star, George Brent, who plays Dr. Steele, were in 11 films together between 1932 and 1942.

They were never romantically linked off screen until after this film. Brent was divorcing his wife and Bette’s first husband was divorcing her and her affairs with Howard Hughes and director William Wyler were ending. The pair remained together for about a year and later in life Bette said of him, “Of the men I didn’t marry, the dearest was George Brent.”

The role was already intensely emotional and with Davis at her emotional breaking point, her performance ended up being one praised by critics when the film was released and for years to come.

Bette was the one who pushed for the rights for the play to be purchased but when they were, she said she didn’t feel she could pull off the role.

Margarita Landazuri writes for TCM that after only a few days of shooting, “Bette begged to be released from the film, claiming she was sick. Producer Hal Wallis replied, ‘Bette, I’ve seen the rushes – stay sick!’”

This movie is called a “three-hanky hit” because of how emotional it was. Viewers knew they were being emotionally manipulated by it but it was so well made, they didn’t mind.

It is a well-made film, Bette carries herself through the role beautifully, and it was fun seeing Humphrey Bogart in a side-role as her a man who has unrequited love for Judith.

Maybe it is because the movie was made so well that it made it impossible for me to watch it all the way through.

If you do decide to watch it, bring your tissues and muster through better than I did.

I should also mention that our former president Ronald Reagan was in this one and he was a roaring drunk, loser. Ha! He didn’t play it very convicingly so I don’t think that was his normal state, even as a young guy, but maybe I’m wrong?

Bette and Ronald Reagan

Next up I’ll be watching Jezebel from 1938.

Here is a description of that movie in case you are interested: “In one of her most renowned roles, Bette Davis portrays Julie Marsden, a spoiled Southern belle who risks losing her suitor with her impetuous behavior. Engaged to successful banker Preston Dillard (Henry Fonda), Julie pushes him away with her arrogant and contrary ways, leading to a scandalous scene at a major social event and his subsequent departure. When Preston eventually returns and Julie attempts to win him back, she discovers that it may be too late.”

My watch list for this feature:

It’s Love I’m After (April 15)

The  Working Man (April 21)

Another Man’s Poison (April 27)

Dark Victory (April 30)

Jezebel (May 1)

Dangerous (May 7)

The Letter (May 12)

Of Human Bondage (May 21)

Now, Voyager (May 28)


Additional sources/resources:

https://www.tcm.com/articles/29905/dark-victory

https://theblondeatthefilm.com/2015/02/02/dark-victory-1939/

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