Saturday Afternoon Chat: A brief homeschool update, I broke my book-buying ban….again, and Ilia Milanin is just – wow!

This homeschool year has been different than the past nine years I have been homeschooling.

One, I’m only homeschooling one child this year. Of course, I was only homeschooling one child for a year or so before I moved Little Miss into official lessons when she was about 5.

But this year, my oldest has already graduated.

Little  Miss is in fifth grade, and this year we added online classes to the lessons we were doing from our physical textbooks.

We were already using online videos/curriculum for math, but this year we found Outschool and began to add art classes, two science classes, and three clubs where Little Miss can interact with other students and an instructor.

Little Miss absolutely loves the art classes. We will not be giving them up anytime soon.

She also enjoys the other classes — even the science, which I thought she might want to give up over the summer, but doesn’t want to.

She actually wants to continue all of her classes this summer, so we are becoming semi-all-year-round homeschoolers.

Doing that would actually be great because it means we can take breaks whenever we want and still hit our required 180 days of school under the Pennsylvania homeschool law.

In addition to the online classes, we recently enrolled Little Miss in art classes once a week about a 45-minute drive from our house.

She’s really enjoying this.

Mixed with online and in-person classes is the curriculum-based work we do.

This year we are using Beautiful Feet’s literature-based history curriculum, Evan Moore worksheets for grammar, punctuation, and spelling, and The Good and the Beautiful for science unit studies.

We have read The Singing Tree by Kate Seredy this year and excerpts from a fiction book about the Civil War.

The Singing Tree focuses on World War I from the perspective of Hungarian-Austrian farmers.

We usually read more books throughout the year. I’m not really sure what happened to us this year but since we are continuing to homeschool during the summer (at least part time anyhow), we have plenty of time to dig into another one.

We meet with our homeschool evaluator in the beginning of June, but before that I have to give Little Miss a standardized test online, which is required in Pennsylvania for third, fifth, and eighth grades.

Yesterday, Little Miss, The Husband, and I stopped at a book sale at a library in the town where Little Miss takes her classes.

That visit resulted in me breaking my book-buying ban for March and April. I am, however, going to try to restart the ban on April 1—no fooling!

I did not institute a ban on myself because I think it is bad to own books but because I have plenty I want to read and I’d like to get through those before I buy anymore.

There was a nice selection at the sale this year but I stuck to authors I knew, for the most part, and even bought two books I already own.

They were both Jan Karon books. One of them is a paperback version of a huge hardback collection I own, and I thought it would be nice to have a “lighter” version of that one.

Of course, Little Miss needed to pick out a couple of cozy mysteries for me, a tradition when we visit this sale. I was very excited she picked up Cat Who book I haven’t read yet and then I found another one I hadn’t read yet as well.

The Husband found three books I might read after him, including a Raymond Chandler one, The Big Sleep.

Here is my stack, without The Husband’s books:



The only problem is finding places to put these books we keep buying. Luckily, I have a plan to rehome the ones I have read and don’t think I will read again. That went very well last time when I put them all in a bag for my husband to distribute to the many free little libraries he drives past. Sarcasm alert because both he and I forgot about the books and I’m fairly certain they are still sitting in the trunk of my car.

I’ll keep trying to find homes for these little guys.

The weather has been so crazy for the past month, but the last two weeks have taken the cake. One day it is 70, the next 32 and so on. My sinuses are miserable from it all. Today the high is going to be 34 and I won’t be doing much other than taking some groceries to my parents.

This upcoming week shouldn’t be busy at the beginning of the week, but definitely will be after Thursday, which is when my husband is having dental surgery. I’m not looking forward to that day because we have to get up so early and because I am just nervous about the procedure itself. We aren’t sure how he will be feeling afterwards but he is calling Monday to get more details.

Completely off topic but I just watched Ilia Malinin win his third World Figure Skating Championship and fell into a YouTube spiral of watching his videos afteward.

I’ve never seen anyone skate the way he does, pulling off those quad axels and jumps like he’s just skating along on a frozen pond somewhere. It’s like nothing for him. Of course, I know it has taken years of practice, discipline, and work to get there but it just feels like it’s nothing for him.

The height he gets on those jumps is like nothing I have ever seen before. I’ve been watching skating for more than 30 years and I definitely have my favorites from way back. Some were stronger in artistry and some in technical skills but they were so entertaining either way. With Ilia you have someone who is strong in every aspect of skating. He is outstanding technically but also artistically.

When he does those jumps it is almost other worldly — beyond human capability.

In case you haven’t seen him yet, here is his program from today’s World Championships and a then video that shows you how amazing his quad jumps are.

How have things been going for you? Anything interesting going on or going to go on?

What I love about writing my books

I don’t think I make it clear enough when I share about my books, how much fun I have writing them.

I share about how I am stuck on book four.

I share about not feeling good enough as a writer and a marketer.

I share about imposter syndrome and writer’s block.

But I keep forgetting to share how much I love my made up characters.

I love Gladwynn Grant, but I don’t even think I’ve scratched the surface of really getting to know who she is.

I love that Gladwynn and Lucinda (her grandmother) are a mix of my grandmothers.

I love the quirky characters that surround her.

I don’t love that I started a love triangle. That has stressed me out more than the mysteries and is one reason I dragged my feet on book four so long.

I’ll figure it out eventually.

The bottom line is that writing my cozy mysteries has brought me some stress but a lot more joy.

They are not best sellers and this is going to sound weird, but I totally love that too! I love having this little, lovely group of readers who like my characters and like to tell me that.

I need to pause more and share what I love about writing – instead of what stresses me out about it!


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You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

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Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot March 27

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

Hello… let’s start with introducing our hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

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WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: huisvlijt

Thank you so much for joining us for our link-up!

And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

Beautiful new curtains in the Apple Cottage!

Deb is sharing some favorite reads

A whole new twis
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Shelbee’s showing some lovely style in this one

Thrifting World has started some lovely gardening

Melynda has shared an amazing low-histamine bread recipe

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Book Recommendation: Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie

I read Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie for the first time this month as part of Read Christie 2026 with the Official Agatha Christie site.

I’ve read plenty of Christie’s books already but have always steered clear of the “big ones” that everyone knows because I’ve usually seen the movies and know the stories. I have learned, though, that there can be changes in the movies and sometimes they aren’t always for the better.

One example was And Then There Were None. If you have not read that one, you really need to, even if you saw any of the movies. It was the first Christie I read and … whoa. I sat there at the end feeling horrified and in awe at the same time. What a twisted, but well-written story.

(An aside…anyone who doesn’t think Agatha disappeared for 11 days as a way to get back at Archie and buys the whole “temporary amnesia” story hasn’t read enough of Agatha’s books. The woman had a million ideas how to get back at someone and how to kill them.  If you don’t know what I am talking about – do a quick online search. It’s like the plot of one of her books but actually real life.)

For those who have never read this one, here is simple summary: a group of people end up stranded on the Orient Express (a train in Europe) during a blizzard when one of them is murdered. Too bad for the murderer, renowned detective Hercule Poirot has hopped on at the last minute and is working hard to solve the case while everyone waits for help to arrive.

What is so funny in the Poirot books is how Poirot always expects everyone to know who he is, and most people look at him in confusion when he introduces himself.

It’s always like, “Surely you must know me,” and then the other person looks confused and says, “No, I’m afraid not.”

Here are some actual quotes from the book that I enjoyed:

“Mon ami, if you wish to catch a rabbit you put a ferret into the hole and if the rabbit is there he runs. That’s all I have done.”

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“When he passed me in the restaurant,” he said at last. “I had a curious impression. It was as though a wild animal — an animal savage, but savage, you understand — had passed me by.”

“And yet he looked altogether of the most respectable.”

“Precisement! The body — the cage — is everything of the most respectable — but through the bars, the wild animal looks out.”

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“But I know human nature, my friend, and I tell you that, suddenly confronted with the possibility of being tried for murder, the most innocent person will lose his head and do the most absurd things.”

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“You’ve a pretty good nerve,” said Ratchett. “Will twenty thousand dollars tempt you?”

It will not.”

If you’re holding out for more, you won’t get it. I know what a thing’s worth to me.”

I, also M. Ratchett.”

What’s wrong with my proposition?”

Poirot rose. “If you will forgive me for being personal – I do not like your face, M. Ratchett,” he said.”

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“All around us are people, of all classes, of all nationalities, of all ages. For three days these people, these strangers to one another, are brought together. They sleep and eat under one roof, they cannot get away from each other. At the end of three days they part, they go their several ways, never, perhaps, to see each other again.”

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I’ve already read my Christie for this month, but I’ve tossed Crooked House in the mix as an extra Christie read because my husband recommended it.

In April, I’ll be reading a Miss Marple — A Caribbean Mystery.

Have you read this one or any Christie books? If you have read her books, do you have a favorite?


If you write book reviews or book-related blog posts, don’t forget that Erin and I host the A Good Book and A Cup of Tea Monthly Bookish Blog Party. You can learn more about it here.

On Thursdays, I am part of the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot blog link party. You can find the latest one in the sidebar to the right under recent posts.

I also post a link-up on Sundays for weekly updates about what you are reading, watching, doing, listening to, etc.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

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Top Ten Books on My Spring 2026 To-Read List

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl.

Today’s prompt is: Books on My Spring 2026 To-Read List

I already shared a post about what books I have on my spring hopeful list, so today I am narrowing the list down to the top ten from that list that I definitely want to read, even though I know other books will probably catch my attention along the way.

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  1. Thrush Green by Miss Read

I’ve read other Miss Read books and enjoyed them so wanted to try this one.

Discover the little English village that neighbors Fairacre, in a novel that’s “enchanting, lovely, gentle, pointed, and charming” (Minneapolis Sunday Tribune).
Miss Read’s charming chronicles of English small-town life have achieved legendary popularity, providing a welcome return to a gentler time with “wit, humor, and wisdom in equal measure” (The Plain Dealer).
Welcome to Thrush Green, the neighboring village to Fairacre, with its blackthorn bushes, thatch-roofed cottages, enchanting landscape, and jumble sales. Readers will enjoy meeting a new cast of characters and also spotting familiar faces as they become immersed in the village’s turn of events over the course of one pivotal day: May Day. All year, the residents of Thrush Green have looked forward to the celebration. Before the day is over, life and love, and perhaps eternity, will touch the immemorial peace of the village.

2. Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

I keep saying I am going to read this one and just never do it! This spring I want to actually read it!

Our moral consciousness and moral judgements are proof to the human race that a moral being exists—God.

Mere Christianity explores the core beliefs of Christianity by providing an unequaled opportunity for believers and nonbelievers alike to hear a powerful, rational case for the Christian faith. A brilliant collection, Mere Christianity remains strikingly fresh for the modern reader and at the same time confirms C. S. Lewis’s reputation as one of the leading writer and thinkers of our age.

The book brings together Lewis’ legendary broadcast talks during World War II. Lewis discusses that everyone is curious about: right and wrong, human nature, morality, marriage, sins, forgiveness, faith, hope, generosity, and kindness.

3. Murder, She Wrote: Aloha Betrayed by Donald Bain  

These are always fun reads so I need at least one per season if not one per month!

Description: Jessica is on the Hawaiian island of Maui, giving a lecture on community involvement in police investigations. Her co-lecturer is legendary retired detective Mike Kane, who shares his love of Hawaiian lore, legends, and culture with Jessica. But the talking stops when the body of a colleague is found at the rocky foot of a cliff.

Mala Kapule, a botanist and popular professor at Maui College, was known for her activism and efforts on behalf of the volcanic crater Haleakala. Plans to place the world’s largest solar telescope there split the locals, with Mala arguing fiercely to preserve the delicate ecology of the area.

Now it’s up to Jessica and Mike to uncover who was driven to silence the scientist…and betray the spirit of aloha.

4. Crooked House by Agatha Christie

I am currently reading this one and enjoying it.

Description Described by the queen of mystery herself as one of her favorites of her published work, Crooked House is a classic Agatha Christie thriller revolving around a devastating family mystery.

The Leonides are one big happy family living in a sprawling, ramshackle mansion. That is until the head of the household, Aristide, is murdered with a fatal barbiturate injection.

Suspicion naturally falls on the old man’s young widow, fifty years his junior. But the murderer has reckoned without the tenacity of Charles Hayward, fiancé of the late millionaire’s granddaughter.

5. A Caribbean Mystery by Agatha Christie

This is my April read for the Read Christie 2026 Challenge.

Description: As Miss Marple sat basking in the Caribbean sunshine, she felt mildly discontented with life. True, the warmth eased her rheumatism, but here in paradise nothing ever happened.

Eventually, her interest was aroused by an old soldier’s yarn about a murderer he had known. Infuriatingly, just as he was about to show her a snapshot of this acquaintance, the Major was suddenly interrupted. A diversion that was to prove fatal.

6. Heidi by Johanna Spyri

I am reading this one with Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs.

Description: At the age of six, little orphan Heidi is sent to live with her grandfather in the Alps. Everyone in the village is afraid of him, but Heidi – fascinated by his long beard and bushy grey eyebrows – takes to him immediately and soon earns his love in return. She adores her life in the mountains, playing in the sunshine and growing up among the goats and birds, but one terrible day Heidi is collected by her aunt and forced to live with a new family in town. Heartbroken by the loss of her Alpine life, she must do everything she can to return to her grandfather.

7. Nancy’s Mysterious Letter by Carolyn Keene

Because I haven’t read a Nancy Drew in a bit.

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Description: By mistake, Nancy Drew receives a letter from England intended for an heiress, also named Nancy Drew. When Nancy undertakes a search for the missing young woman, it becomes obvious that a ruthless, dangerous man is determined to prevent her from finding the heiress or himself. Clues that Nancy unearths lead her to believe that the villainous Edgar Nixon plans to marry the heiress and then steal her inheritance.

8. Rascal by Sterling North

Little Miss and I will be reading this for school.

Description: Rascal is a beloved, autobiographical children’s book by Sterling North, published in 1963, that tells the heartwarming story of a boy’s year-long friendship with a pet raccoon in 1918 Wisconsin. The book, a Newbery Honor winner, chronicles the adventures of young Sterling and his mischievous companion, exploring themes of nature, family, and a changing world as the boy navigates life with his father after his mother’s death. 

9. A Damsel in Distress by P.G. Wodehouse

I’ve really enjoyed his Jeeves series so we will see about this one.

Description: P. G. Wodehouse’s charming tale of a taxi driver who falls in love with a wealthy woman who rides in his cab. Hilarity and antics ensue when he arrives at her rural estate.

10. An Biography by Agatha Christie

This one may take me a bit as it does seem long, but I am very interested in it.

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Back in print in the exclusive authorized edition, is the engaging and illuminating chronicle of the life of the “Queen of Mystery.” Fans of Hercule Poirot and Miss Marple and readers of John Curran’s fascinating biographies Agatha Christie’s Secret Notebooks and Murder in the Making will be spellbound by the compelling, authoritative account of one of the world’s most influential and fascinating novelists, told in her own words and inimitable style. The New York Times Book Review calls Christie’s autobiography a “joyful adventure,” saying, “she brings the sense of wonder…to her extraordinary career.”

Have you read any of these?


If you write book reviews or book-related blog posts, don’t forget that Erin and I host the A Good Book and A Cup of Tea Monthly Bookish Blog Party. You can learn more about it here.

On Thursdays, I am part of the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot blog link party. You can find the latest one in the sidebar to the right under recent posts.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.

Classic Movie Impressions: Another Thin Man (1939)

I’ve been watching and writing about what are known as The Thin Man movies with William Powell and Myrna Loy.

I’ve already written about the first two movies, and you can find those recaps/reviews/thoughts here and here.

Today I am writing about the third movie in the series, Another Thin Man.

If you have not seen the first two movies, there is a spoiler in this one, just to warn you.

You’ve been warned. Are you ready?

You sure? Time to look away if you don’t want to know….

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….

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Okay. You’ll have to know now if you haven’t already left.

In this movie, we have an addition to our mystery-solving team —  Nick Jr.

That’s right. Nick and Nora Charles have had a baby since the last movie and what a cute baby he is.

He isn’t a central part of the somewhat confusing plot of this movie, but he is an adorable addition. You would actually suspect there would be a baby in this one if you saw the end of the last movie when Nora was knitting baby booties.

Somewhat convoluted plots seem to be the norm for The Thin Man movies, but let’s be honest, we aren’t just here for the mystery — we are here for the Nick and Nora banter and one-liners.

We are here for scenes like one where Nick finds Nora at a night club with men all around her, gently makes his way to her, and says, “Now, Mommy, you know you can’t be out until the doctor says it’s okay for you to leave quarantine.”

That clears the room fast, and the couple is left to compare notes with each other on their investigation.

Let’s go back a bit and give an overview of the movie.

Nick (William Powell) and Nora (Myrna Loy) accept an invitation to visit a family friend who also helps with Nora’s money (she’s an heiress if you remember from the previous movies), Col. Burr MacFay (C. Aubrey Smith – who I have been seeing in a lot of old movies I’ve been watching lately). MacFay is convinced his neighbor, Phil Church, who he worked with before, and is a known criminal, is trying to kill him.

No one else in the family is sure about this but MacFay calls Nick and Nora in the middle of the night practically begging them to help him find out.

While they are there, the dog of MacFay’s daughter is murdered brutally (that was dark) and a knife is thrown at Nick when he tries to talk to Phil Church (Sheldon Leonard).

It was also quite odd that when they were driving in to the estate, Nick saw a stabbed, “dead” body along the road, but when he stopped to investigate the body was gone and the chauffer ran off into the woods.

Skipping ahead, without spoiling too much, I can tell you that MacFay is murdered and right afterward Church disappears.

This leaves Nick and Nora to help the police investigate if Church actually murdered him or if someone else did.

Everyone else involved with the first two movies returned for this one, even the creator of Nick and Nora, noir crime writer Dashiell Hammet, who helped with the screenplay again this time, but was kicked off the last movie for drinking too much.

The two married, Oscar-winning writers who tried to kill the series by writing a baby in —  Albert Hackett and Frances Goodrich —  even came back, but this was their last movie in the series, which Myrna Loy said negatively affected the last three movies.

“Do you know I never saw them at Metro?” she wrote in her autobiography. “It’s terrible, really, but unless they sent for the writers to get us out of a hole, we seldom saw them on the set….I didn’t meet the Hacketts until I moved to New York in the fifties. We became friends, I’m happy to say, and Albert facetiously explained one day why they didn’t write the last three Thin Man pictures: ‘Finally I just threw up on my typewriter. I couldn’t do it again; I couldn’t write another one.’ Perhaps we all should have concurred; those last three never really touched the previous ones.”

Director Woody VanDyke returned as well.

The movie almost wasn’t made, however, due to a health scare with its leading man, William Powell, as well as the sudden, unexpected death of his fiancé, Jean Harlow, right before filming.

William Powell and Jean Harlow

Powell was treated for cancer in 1938. Jean passed away in 1937. It was a more tired and depressed Powell who returned for the movie, even though his cancer treatments were successful. According to TCM.com, the cast and crew did their best to lift his spirits.

“Powell was given a standing ovation by the cast and crew on his first day on the set of Another Thin Man,” an article by Lang Thompson shares. “According to author Charles Francisco in the biography, Gentleman: The William Powell Story, “Powell, looking remarkably fit and tanned, seemed embarrassed by the attention. He held up his hands and the familiar grin began to play at the corners of his mouth as he tried to think of something funny to say. The applause stopped, and Bill found that he couldn’t speak. Myrna Loy rushed over to him and gave him a kiss and a big hug.”

To help with Powell’s recovery, VanDyke, usually known as a no-nonsense guy, cut shooting hours down to six hours a day and let Powell rest whenever he needed.

Powell’s illness kept him from being able to take the role of Maxim de Winter in Hitchock’s Rebecca. The role went to Laurence Olivier instead. Personally, I believe Olivier was a better fit.

Another Thin Man ended up being one of the highest-grossing films of 1939.

Up next in our series will be Shadow of the Thin Man from 1941. We will see if Myrna was right about the last three not being as good as the first three, with Hackett and Goodrich not on board.

You can read my impressions of the other movies I have watched here.


Sources:

https://theblondeatthefilm.com/2017/08/09/another-thin-man/

https://www.tcm.com/articles/27611/another-thin-man


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Sunday Bookends: Taking social media breaks, finally finished with Return of the King, O’Hara gets a DNF

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

I mentioned in my Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot post on Thursday that I am pulling back from social media. This is something I’ve been trying to do for months because I know it will help  my mental health.

I stay on social media (Instagram) because I have fun sharing old movie clips or posts about books but it has started to really consume me and take away from more productive things I could be doing.

It is interesting that the same weekend I deleted Instagram from my phone (not forever but for a few days at least), YouTube suggested a video about scrolling less and experiencing life more.

If you are also trying to break the social media addiction (and I am happy for those of you who don’t have one!), here is a video with some ideas on what to do instead.

You can catch up on what I’ve been up to lately in yesterday’s Saturday Afternoon Chat.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

I finally finished Return of the King by Tolkien. I don’t want to talk about it. The last several chapters were like torture. The book just would not end. Still, I loved the trilogy overall, the friendships, the way the ring was destroyed which was not how people make it out to be, the good writing.

But I felt like the last five or six chapters were a slog.

I’m ready for lighter fare now.

I tossed the Maureen O’Hara book aside. I have thoughts on that one – oh do I. I plan to write a separate review because I got through enough of it that I can write one.

Maureen says in the beginning she waited 70-some years to get revenge on people and boy did she – I think she made up half of what she wrote just to do that.

And she also made sure she came out looking like quite the victim and yet also the savior through most of it.

 I’ll explain my issues with the book further in a future post, but rest assured, I wasn’t the only one who got the same impression.

In Progress

I am reading Crooked House by Agatha Christie and A Damsel in Distress by P.G. Wodehouse.

Up Soon

I will be reading Heidi in April. I also hope to read Thrush Green by Miss Read, Nancy Drew and The Mysterious Letter, and Murder, She Wrote: Aloha Betrayal.

What The Family is Reading

Litte Miss and I are almost done with The Singing Tree.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

Eternally Yours (a 1939 movie with David Niven and Loretta Young), The Mirror Cracked (awful movie from the 1970s based on an Agatha Christie book), and the British Sitcom Two’s Company.

What I’ve Been Writing

This week on the blog I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

Little Miss and I are listening to Gone Away Lake by Elizabeth Enright. I read this to her last year but we are enjoying listening to it again.

I have started listening to The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain.

Recent Blog Posts I Enjoyed

Reading Through The Hardy Boys by Pages Unbound

Tea Time Kitchen Talk by The Farm Wife Reads

The Double Turn 1956 by Cross Examining Crime.

The Miracle Before Our Eyes by Grace Filled Moments

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link-party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date. Sunday Bookends with Boondock Ramblings and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


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Saturday Afternoon Chat – Return of the King just won’t end, weird weather, and adventures in driving with a new driver

It has been a long time since I have written a Saturday Afternoon Chat, but it feels good to be sitting down just to chat with all of you.

I have tea news!

I plan to finally try a new tea today. An apple cinnamon one.

That’s right, I am going to be brave after usually only drinking peppermint tea because sometimes other teas cause me to break out.

My sister-in-law gave me a sampling of teas last year, though, and my husband really liked one of them, so I bought us another pack and I am going to try the tea.

I’ll let you know what I think next week.

What teas have you been drinking lately?

Little Miss has been taking art classes once a week for the last couple of months in a town about 45 minutes away from where we live.

The Husband took her the first month, and The Boy and I have been taking her this time around.

The Boy has been nice enough to drive because long drives sometimes flare up some of my autoimmune symptoms.

The trips have been quite an adventure, with us getting pulled over last week due to the officer thinking our registration had run out, then me almost causing us to get into an accident when I told the boy he was in the wrong lane, but didn’t tell him to look out to make sure a car wasn’t coming before he moved into the right lane.

As a new driver, he drives well but was a bit on edge, and after we were almost hit, he made me drive the rest of the day.

The police incident happened when we pulled into a gas station parking lot so I could use the bathroom and The Boy could pick up a soda.

He blocked us in and then turned his lights on, and The Boy and I almost wet ourselves…I am not going to lie.

He was very polite and asked us if we had just renewed our registration, and I said we had the night before. He said he thought so and said something about the computer and our information, and and and…. I don’t even know how it works, I’m just so glad he didn’t make us get out of the car because I would have fainted.

I have never actually fainted, but I feel faint when I am anxious. I call myself a fainting goat. Somehow, I stayed conscious when the officer (chief, actually) was talking to us.

The thing about these trips is that they are never quick or simple. Something weird always seems to happen.

The classes are 90 minutes long, but we usually have to run other errands while we are in town. One of those errands is picking up sushi for Little Miss at a local supermarket after her class. She thinks she has to have sushi every time we visit that town.

Last week we picked up our groceries at Aldi, made a Walmart run and bought sushi and fruit.

This week, The Boy and I ran to get the sushi while Little Miss was in her class and The Husband picked up the grocery order in another town. That made our trip a little shorter than others.

This weekend, we are mainly relaxing, but The Husband is taking Little Miss to a movie, and I will be taking some groceries to my parents and maybe straightening up their house a little.

Tomorrow I will be participating in a Crafternoon (some fellow bloggers get together to do crafts and chat), though I am not sure who is attending since it is spring and some will probably be out enjoying the nice weather. We, however, do not have nice weather yet.

We’ve had rain, snow, cold, some warmth, then more cold in the last couple of weeks.

My sinuses are begging for some relief as the up and down temps cause them to suffer.

Also begging for relief is my brain since I am almost done with Return of the King by J.R.R. Tolkien but it.will.not.end.

Don’t get me wrong, I have enjoyed the book, but it should have ended about six chapters ago. I had no idea we were going to walk a bunch of characters home and then have a whole battle with “ruffians” in The Shire before the thing would end. Then there is 100-200 page appendix that lists the history of Middle Earth, characters, events, language and a bunch of other stuff I will not be reading.

The phrase “it will not end” makes me think of the time Elijah Wood was on Graham Norton and said he ran into Jack Nicholson who asked him how the trilogy ended because he got up and left before the end because the last movie would never end.  He was right too.

Imagine if Peter Jackson had decided to include the chapter called “The Scouring of The Shire.” It definitely would have never ended.

Blah. No, thank you.

I looked online, and some fans say it is the most important chapter in the book because some believe Tolkien was using it as an allegory to the aftermath of World War I or something or other. It might be, but for me it is terribly boring and I don’t know why it is there.

Ha! I’m kidding a bit. It isn’t totally boring…just a bit dragged out.

I mean, I get that Tolkien just wasn’t ready to let go of his characters, but he really needed to. They completed the task they set out on two books ago (or five when he first released them). Task over, story over. That’s how I feel.

Anyhow, I hope to have the book finished today so I can finally say I read The Lord of the Rings trilogy.

And that I enjoyed most of it.

Before bed tonight, Little Miss and I have to wind her cat up. Cass is the kitten that was dropped off at our house the day before Halloween last year. He is young and a bit annoying because he is used to my husband getting up at 7 for work and letting him outside.

With the time change, he started yowling at 6 to be let out but for the past week he’s started running his little mouth at 5 a.m. every morning. It wakes my husband up and once he’s up, he can’t go back to sleep. It’s also woke me up but I am very blessed to be able to lay back down and usually fall back to sleep.

The second morning he tried this I almost let him out at 5 a.m. but it was 14 degrees out. The next time he tried it I got up at 6 and put him out the front  door.

Then I started to think that if we got him extra tired before Little Miss and I go to bed at night maybe he would sleep through to when The Husband gets up. We tried it Thursday night and he didn’t yowl until 6. We did it again last night and I only saw him at 7 when I got up to use the bathroom so I put him out so The Husband could sleep in some on his day off.

Little Miss loves this cat, but between him stealing raw meat from the counter when I am trying to defrost it (he literally rips the packaging and gnaws on the meat or drags it off!), screaming at 5 a.m., almost tripping us by flopping over on his side in the kitchen floor when he wants attention, and all his other antics, there are days I want to give him away.

But then he looks up at me with those big eyes, and I know I could never do it.

He also follows Little Miss around, curls up with her in the mornings, and lays his head on her shoulder like a big baby any time she picks him up.

I guess that’s it for me this time around.

I hope you are all doing well and had a good week last week.

The Blue Castle Chapters 23 to 44

I am going to be honest with my blog readers — I forgot to write the last blog post for our read along!

My husband was having horrible jaw pain, had to go to the ER (which he never does!)  and will need oral surgery so my mind just blanked on the fact I was supposed to write a final post about the last chapters of the book!

But on with the show.

These are my favorite chapters.

The chapters where all the sweet and subtle romance happens.

There are also some slower chapters for me in this part of the book, but I believe those slower chapters are meant to build up a picture for us of the love growing between Barney and Valancy.

It’s in these chapters where Valancy asks Barney to marry her after Cissy passes away.

She confesses to him about her heart condition and tells him she simply wants to experience some living before she dies.

She wants to live with him on his island and spend time with him and then she will  be dead and gone and he can move on with his life.

Barney agrees, and we aren’t sure if it is because he loves her or he feels sorry for her.

She isn’t either but she is amazed when they travel to his little island across the water, and she realizes his home, amongst the trees and nature, is how she pictured her blue castle.

Valancy loves Barney.

She loves his idiosyncrasies and the way he loves nature and how he cares about the animals, such as his cats.

When they first get married, he makes her promise that she will not go into his little shed out back and she says she doesn’t care about his shed or what he does in there, even if he has a dead wife hanging on the wall. Lucy Maud’s sense of humor  was so odd and quirky and I’m here for it.


They carry on life, scandalizing Valancy’s family who goes apoplectic when they learn Valancy has married a rumored womanizer and criminal.

Valancy likes to read and quote John Foster to Barney as they walk in the woods and he always rolls  his eyes and ask how she can read such silliness.

Gradually Valancy begins to look and feel better. She’s full of joy and her physical appearance is showing it. The dark circles have disappeared and she’s putting on healthy weight.

The chest pains and dizzy spells she used to have have just about disappeared.

Life is wonderful and then something crazy happens.

She and Barney are on their way back from town and are crossing the train tracks when her shoe gets stuck in the track. Before they know it, a train if barreling down on her.

Barney tries to get her loose but she tells him to leave her. She was going to die anyhow but he has a future.

Barney refuses and is able to get her loose and drag her to safety.

Afterwards Valancy realizes that if anything should have caused her weakened heart to fail, it should have been that near death experience.

She is mystified and horrified.

She worries Barney will think she somehow manipulated him into marriage, that she really isn’t dying. She believes this is how Barney feels when he becomes distant and announces he will be leaving for a while.

Cue the misunderstanding trope, which I often hate in modern romances, but which works well here.

It’s at this point that I was hoping what I thought might happen all along — that Valancy will find out that she isn’t really dying.

How exciting it was when Dr. Trent finds out he sent the wrong letter and how realistic for me, someone with chronic illness, to see a doctor screw up a diagnosis or send the wrong letter. Apparently, this whole thing of some/many doctors being inept isn’t a new thing. Unlike some doctors of today, though, Dr. Trent apologizes profusely.

Valancy is happy she isn’t dying, for the most part, but realizes how much she enjoyed life when she thought she didn’t have a lot of it left.

Her world has been turned upside yet again, but her day isn’t over yet.

She’s about to find out who Barney Snaith really is for an old man is waiting by the river when she arrives home, looking for a way to the island.

Valancy soon learns this man is Barney’s father, Mr. Redfern the man who founded the company that produces the elixirs her family always tried to make her take when they decided she was ill. Barney isn’t a poor man who just loves walking through the woods with her and listening to trees blow in the wind. He’s the son of a millionaire. He hasn’t talked to his father in years, but he still has wealthy connections.

There is this whole hilarious part where during her conversation with Mr. Redfern, Valancy would think of one of the advertising phrases for the elixir.

“Dr. Redfern took out a yellow handkerchief, removed his hat, and mopped his brow. He was very bald and Valancy’s imp whispered, “Why be bald? Why lose your manly beauty? Try Redfern’s Hair Vigor. It keeps you young.”

Dr. Redfern tells her that Barney was engaged once but then ran off and now Valancy thinks he would probably rather be married to the woman he used to be engaged to.

I could relate to Valancy feeling overwhelmed at this point. She’s just been told she isn’t dying, she finds out her husband is the son of one of the richest men in Canada, she’s worried her husband thinks she manipulated him— everything is completely messed up.

I truly felt her sadness and despair.

After Mr. Redfern leaves, telling her he’s shocked that Barney couldn’t even tell him he had a wife, even though they haven’t spoken in almost five years, Valancy decides she needs to leave because she feels like Barney definitely only married her because he thought she was going to die.

She wants to write a farewell letter to Barney but can’t find a pencil so goes into the shed she was never supposed to go in and learns that Barney is really John Foster! All those beautiful things that John Foster wrote are really coming from Barney! He was derisive about John Foster because he didn’t want her to know who he was in case she liked him only because he was the writer she loved so much.

If you’ve read the book, then you might have been like me and yelling at the page because you just feel in your gut this is not why Barney left.  Maybe he was trying to process things but I just felt that he was not leaving Valancy.

It was so hard to see Valancy go back to her depressing life with her mother and aunts and uncles.

I was just praying that Barney would come back to rescue her and when he did, I was so thrilled! The way he tells her that he wasn’t running away from her, and how he realized the day she almost died on the train tracks how much he loved her is just so special and lovely.

“But I didn’t realize what you actually meant to me till that moment at the switch. Then it came like a lightning flash. I knew I couldn’t live without you — that if I couldn’t live without you — that if I couldn’t pull you loose in time I’d have to die with you. I admit it bowled me over — knocked me silly. I couldn’t get my bearings for a while.”

What really upset him was that he knew he loved her, but he also knew she was going to die, and it drove him mad with sadness.

He tells her how his previous fiancé only wanted him for his money and when he first met Valancy he needed to know she wanted him for him, not his money.

Sure, he felt sorry for her at first when he married her, but then he fell hard for her.

“You made me believe again in the reality of friendship and love,” he says. “The world seemed good again just because you were in it honey. I’d have been willing to go on forever just as we were. I knew that, the night I came home and saw my homelight shining out from the island for the first time and knew you were there waiting for me. After being homeless all my life it was beautiful to have a home. To come home hungry at night and know there was a good supper and a cheery fire — and you.”

*sniff*

I mean, seriously…I just love this whole section. No, I don’t like some romances as much as other genres, but this romance is just so sweet.

I love when she says he shouldn’t love her and he says, “Love you! Girl, you’re in the very core of my heart. I hold you there like a jewel. Didn’t I promise you I’d never tell you a lie? Love you! I love you with all there is of me to love. Heart, soul, brain. Every fiber of body and spirit thrilling to the sweetness of you. There is nobody in the world for me but you Valancy!”

Valancy doesn’t believe him for a bit, and I just wanted to reach inside the book and shake her a bit and yell, “Girl! Wake up!! He really loves you!”

I don’t know about you but I was a little disappointed when they decide to travel the world instead of stay on their island, or at Valancy’s blue castle. I’m glad they plan to stay there for summers but I don’t like the idea that the two of them may become jaded by the world without nature to ground them. I guess that is why they decided to keep the little island and plan to return to it as often as they can.

This bring us to the end of our read along of The Blue Castle.

What did you think of the book as a whole and especially the ending?