Sunday Bookends: Disappointed in humanity but enjoying silly books to forget all that

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

This past week was rainy and muggy but our leaves are changing and at least our nights are cooler.

The feel of autumn is in the air for sure on those cooler nights. The apple fritter scented candle my husband picked up this weekend is helping that mood even more.

Yesterday the kids and I took advantage of the “nicer” weather we had after a week of rain  and headed to a playground about twenty minutes from us. It was a gloomy and muggy day, but the kids still had fun playing on the zipline and in the creek. Little Miss made a new friend she might never meet again but they had fun at least.

I capped off my night with a Cary Grant movie, The Talk of the Town. It was a bit of a quirky film that was supposed to be a comedy but bordered on a drama at times.

This week I am going to work on being less overwhelmed with the world. To do that I am going to try to go on a media fast of sorts. Very limited scrolling and almost no news. My nervous system is overstimulated, overworked, over…something.

I have a lot going on with my parents’ health right now and some other things in life so I can’t take on the hurts and pains of the world too.

And I do take them on. When I see people hurting and then see people who do not care about that hurt because they have become desensitized to the pain of others with the 24/7 news cycle I start to realize that people around me are also probably thinking these horrible things that people are writing online too. It feels like people care less these days unless it is some political cause they are behind and while they are promoting that political cause they are tearing down others and yelling that is actually the other people tearing them down.

It’s exhausting and I’ve heard this over and over and over recently —that our brains were not built for all this news and 24/7 stimulation from social media. As a pastor I listen to once said, “We were not meant to be walking around with the entire world accessible via our butt bone.”

Of course he was talking about people who slide their phones in their back pockets and can slide it out at any time and at any time see the horrors of the world unfolding in real time. We can see good things too but we all know that the worst of the worst that is happening is what sells news and makes people stop scrolling.

More of us need to put our phones down and actually interact with people. As an introvert this is hard for me to say. I don’t like people. Ha. I know there are good people out there, though, and we need to find those people and interact with them more and the grumpy mouthy people on the internet less.

It’s a goal anyhow and I want to work more toward it.

Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs and I are still hosting crafternoons but completely blanked on setting up a date on September. We both started homeschooling and had other events and all of the sudden September was over. It’s crazy  to me how fast it went by!

We will be announcing a date for October later on, probably next week.

If you are wondering what Crafternoons are it is a monthly Zoom meet up where we get together with other bloggers/crafters and do a craft while we chat about life and books and all kinds of other things. We do our best not to focus on religion or politics so we don’t depress ourselves.

If you are interested in the crafternoon, you can find more information here.

Erin and I are also hosting a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea. It is almost over for September but you can still get your bookish links in. They do not have to be recent posts, just related to books in some way. I’ll have a new link party up on Wednesday.

I am finishing up the Nancy Drew book The Clue of the Broken Locket and will probably take a bit of a Nancy break.

These books were written for the youth of the day back in the 1930s and then rewritten a bit in the 1950s, so I get that there is some unrealistic stuff in there, but did they not know about concussions back then? I suppose they didn’t but these characters are always taking headshots waking up, getting a cold cloth on their head and a drink of water and then continuing on their day.  Like in this book, a huge rock was thrown through a front door, supposedly hit the couch, and knocked two people forward where they hit their heads on the hearth and were both knocked unconscious at the same time.

Hmm….oookay….let’s go on and believe that could happen but then let’s also believe that no one thought they should take both of these people to a hospital to have them checked out???

So the Nancy Drew books can be silly at times, but they aren’t written for adults, and the mysteries themselves are actually very interesting and sometimes even give me ideas for my own book. I suppose that is why I keep reading them off and on. All that being said, it is time for a little break and to read something more mature.

That’s why I’m reading The Voyage of the Dawn Treader by C.S. Lewis. Hahahaha! Really I just have a goal to reread The Chronicles of Narnia so I am reading another children’s book but it’s less annoying than the Nancy Drew books can be.

I am actually reading an adult book by Agatha Christie called Come, Tell Me How You Live but I put it down somewhere in the house and could not find it all week. I found it yesterday finally!

So I shall be reading an adult book this week!

I am also starting one of my fall books, A Fatal Harvest by Rachael O. Phillips, this week since I will finish Nancy Drew today and probably will finish the Narnia book later in the week.

I might start Death of a Gossip by M.C. Beaton this week too, depending on my mood. It’s the first book in the Hamish MacBeth Mystery series. And Emma Lion. I totally forgot I want to start that this week! That might come before Death of a Gossip.

Little Miss and I are going to finish up The Good Master this week. We did not read it last week for some reason.

I’m not sure what The Husband is reading at the moment because I forgot to ask him before he went upstairs for a nap before work and I’m going to publish this before he gets up.

The Boy isn’t reading a book right now but he’s getting ready to read a book based on the Halo games.

This past week I watched less TV than normal but I did watch one of the worst Murder, She Wrote episodes I’ve ever seen. I’ve seen a couple of stinkers and this one was…well, weird and creepy. Jessica essentially had a college guy stalking her. A college guy who looked about 30, I might add. Either way he was obsessed with her and all older women. It was …. Ew.

The Husband and I later watched another one that wasn’t very good either. That’s how it is with series, though, there are good and bad ones. Can’t be helped when a series runs for 12 years!

I stared a movie called The Talk of the Town with Cary Grant last night but didn’t finish it yet. It’s weird. That’s all I can say. It’s also funny. Cary is accused of burning down a building with a person trapped inside but escapes from jail and Jean Arthur decides to let him stay at her rental house even though a law professor is renting out the house at the same time. Cary must prove his innocence to the professor played by Ronald Colman.

It’s a bit crazy, in other words, but I really had an itch to watch an old movie.

I also enjoyed this video about comforting reads from a new-to-me vlogger:

Last week I worked a bit on Gladwynn Grant Goes Back to School.

I also pulled my books out of Kindle Unlimited on Amazon because I feel like Amazon takes advantage and rips of indie authors. My ebooks and paperbacks are still for sale there but they will not be exclusive there anymore. I also introduced new book covers for the Gladwynn books.

On the blog I shared:

|| Embrace Autumn: Tea Breaks and Kitchen Moments by Thrifting Wonderland ||

|| Insomnia: The Nightmarish Gift That Keeps on Giving  by Coffee Addicted Writer ||

|| Things I Know by From This Side of the Pond ||

Please keep praying for Mama’s Empty Nest’s family:

|| Traumatic Thursdays by Mama’s Empty Nest ||

Now It’s Your Turn

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This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, The Sunday Salon with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date. Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


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21 thoughts on “Sunday Bookends: Disappointed in humanity but enjoying silly books to forget all that

  1. I limit what I look at on my phone news-wise and husband has taken BBC News and Facebook off the front page of his phone to keep from doom-scrolling. I just finished some Crimebusters Three Investigators books and I’m quite glad I have no more unread ones now as they were all quite samey in the end. Doesn’t mean I’ll stop looking for the ones I still don’t have yet, just a little rest.

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  2. I stopped watching the news ten years ago and I don’t feel uninformed. In this day and age, news is way too easy to access. I can count on certain people to fill me in if there is something I need to know. Then if I want to, I’ll look it up. Recently, I also put a timer on my phone for Facebook and Instagram. It has made such a difference. I still go on those sites daily, but I’m always there now with a purpose. My time has decreased significantly. I use the Digital Well-being setting for this. Have a great week! 🙂

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  3. Yes far too much news information. I just don’t watch the news anymore. I do give a listen once or twice a day to radio brief news ( no pictures) and that is totally enough for me. It’s why I prefer comfort reads as well.

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  4. Nice assortment of books! I liked The Good Master, but The Chestry Oak is my favorite by Kate Seredy. I enjoyed Nancy Drew when I read them as a teenager but haven’t revisited them as an adult. Come see my week here. Happy reading!

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  5. I’m with you about staying off social media and away from the 24/7 “news” cycle we find ourselves embedded in. It’s just TOO MUCH. Especially if there are struggles going on in our own lives. That said, I’m praying for you and your parents. I know all too well that stage of life you’re in. And to be honest, I don’t like people either even though I’m not really an introvert. I feel guilty saying that as a believer in Jesus when I am told to love everyone, but that is a REAL struggle in today’s world.

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  6. “Like in this book, a huge rock was thrown through a front door, supposedly hit the couch, and knocked two people forward where they hit their heads on the hearth and were both knocked unconscious at the same time.” Wow that is pretty terrible!! And like a huge rock to knock a couch over that had two people sitting on it? Dang. Lol.

    It’s hard, the news these days. I remember reading a book when I was younger, like young adult in my early 20s, by Anne Rivers Siddons called John Chancellor Makes Me Cry. He was an American journalist in the 70s and sometimes I wonder what Siddons would have made of the news today, as constant as it is. She is one of my top favorite authors although I haven’t read her for a very long time.

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  7. I’ve been reading a lot again this month, very here and there. I noticed, however, that when I didn’t read I tended to doomscroll (on my laptop as I don’t have a smartphone which makes it a bit less comfortable and therefore not as bad as it maybe could be) – although I have already hidden a lot of words on FB for example, so I won’t see those posts, I also snooze people who share overwhelmingly if it gets too much for me.
    Living alone, however, and not being able to go out that much, it also means I’m staying in contact with people and I don’t want to let that slide. It’s a thin line and not always easy.

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  8. I have heard the same thing about our brains not being wired to take in this kind of information. But, it makes me wonder if the younger generations aren’t having a different kind of wiring going on in their brains as this is their normal. I hope you understand what I mean by that. I check in on things, barely even scroll these days. I want to be informed, but I don’t even know what is what and what is AI. I do hope you find answers to your prayers for your parents. I will keep praying for you and them. Let’s hope this is a week of positive things.

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  9. “This week I am going to work on being less overwhelmed with the world. To do that I am going to try to go on a media fast of sorts. Very limited scrolling and almost no news. My nervous system is overstimulated, overworked, over…something.

    I have a lot going on with my parents’ health right now and some other things in life so I can’t take on the hurts and pains of the world too.” I feel this to my core. I can’t even read hard books right now, no war, no suicide, etc…things are just too hard. I am a SUPER sensitive person and I take on everyone’s burdens, so again, I feel this. Good luck, I keep thinking I need to do the same, but haven’t done it yet. I did for a bit last weekend at a family reunion, but have been going back on socials more since I got home. I hope you have a good week.

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    • It’s a process to get off socials. I went off for almost three months one time and oh wow…I got so much done and felt so relaxed. It’s not easy though. I always wonder what is going on..not necessarily in news but maybe book news and just bloggers I follow. When I lay my phone down and simply read or watch old movies, though, like I did today, I feel so much better over all. Again, though, it is NOT easy.

      I can’t read hard books either. It’s just too much…..and if a cozy mystery is pretending to be a cozy but all the topics are hard hitting…nope….out.

      Started a book yesterday that I thought was a cozy and it was dark right from the start. I went to look for reviews and there were comments that talked about suicide and pedophilia being part of the book and that had thrown them off because they thought it was going to be a cozy read.

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    • I was able to get another Grace Livingston Hill book for my Birthday, so I’ve been enjoying that break right now too, especially since I’ve had another medication trial this week. It all really is too heavy for us to digest. And I’ve started several new devotionals, lifting my heart to pray and trust instead of worrying. My prayers are with you and your family this week also. ❤️🙏❤️

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