Sunday Bookends: Old recordings from relatives found and watching an old Miss Marple and a new “Miss Bennet”

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing.

Last weekend my daughter and husband found a couple of cassette tapes in my late aunt’s old dresser. My aunt passed away in 2018 and I’m not sure how we didn’t see these tapes before but there they were — recordings that someone had made, we are not sure who, of my grandfather, great-grandmother and another relative on one cassette singing and, at least according to the label, my grandmother and grandfather on another cassette singing.

My grandfather played the harmonica and the Hawaiian steel guitar and had a band with his brothers at one time. I really didn’t know if my grandmother sang but apparently she did some with my grandfather, based on these recordings.

My mom is 81 (82 in August) and she said she wasn’t totally sure it was her parents, since it had been so long since she’d heard their voices. The more she listened, though, she thought it must be, but when they were much younger, which is why they didn’t sound as familiar.

I have not heard my grandmother’s voice since 2002 since she died in early 2003, but something about the laugh made me thin it was her.

I was only 9 when my grandfather died, so I can’t be sure it was him either.

My mom was certain the other woman on the other cassette was her grandmother. The first time we listened to it she was trying to hear the voices, be sure it was them. The second time we listened she cried, but didn’t say why, only saying it wasn’t about being sad. I think a lot of good memories of her grandmother came back hearing those songs.

I texted my great aunt and she confirmed that the voice on the one cassette tape were her brother (my grandfather) and her mother.

Grandpa played bluegrass-style music, or maybe it would be described as Apalachian-style.

The songs we heard on the cassettes were mainly hymns, with some instrumentals on either the Hawaiian steel guitar, the dobro, guitar, or harmonica.

I don’t know why, but I ended up with one of my grandfather’s harmonicas when he died.

I only saw my grandfather once a year since he lived in North Carolina and we lived in Pennsylvania, so I wasn’t very close to him. From what I hear, he wasn’t an easy man for anyone to get close to, but that’s another story for another day.

Quick update on the older cat: she’s doing much better but still not eating well. She is moving better, wants to cuddle more, and is on the mend, even though her left eye is still goopy. The other cats seem fully recovered and are actually back to being a bit annoying.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

I just finished The Cat Who Brought the House Down by Lilian Jackson Braun.

It was a very, slow, light cozy mystery with a pretty dark ending (though not described in detail). I enjoyed it even though it was more like reading a gentle vintage fiction book than a mystery. And that ending…it was like a Christie ending. Not bad, actually good, but really out of place for the rest of the book.

In Progress

I am slow reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month. I am also reading Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis, but had put it aside for a bit. I hope to pick it up again this week.

Stolen Past by Tara Randel, an Amish Inn Mystery, and The Silver Chair by C.S. Lewis.

Up Soon

I’ll be reading The Murder of Roger Ackroyd by Agatha Christie soon for the 2026 Christie Reading Challenge.

What The Family is Reading

The Husband is on assignment for the paper so I didn’t get a chance to ask him what he’s been reading. Little Miss and I took a break from Heidi this week but are picking it back up this upcoming week during our last week of homeschool for a month.

New arrivals to my bookshelf

No new arrivals for now.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

This past week I watched The Other Bennett Sister, The Letter (a movie with Bette Davis that I wrote about), and A Caribbean Mystery – a Miss Marple Mystery with Joan Hickson.

A Caribbean Mystery was so well done and very close to the book. The people they cast for the characters  were absolutely perfect — especially Mr. Rafiel. I am glad they got rid of a three of the characters from the book, though, because it was a little confusing at times and would have been even more confusing in a movie.

There were a few other changes from the novel, including a more prominent role of Island resident Inspector Weston in the movie/TV show. The actor was excellent and I actually enjoyed him being more involved.

The one woman’s American/Southern accent was atrocious though. I really wish the British productions would hire actual Americans for these roles or get someone who doesn’t butcher a Southern accent at least.

There were these horrid crickets or tree frogs or something sounding during many of the nighttime scenes and I wondered why they didn’t cut the sound out but toward the end I realized it created an unsettling feeling that added to the story/mystery.

What I’ve Been Writing

On the blog I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

I am listening to  Murder, She wrote: The Maine Mutiny by Donald Bain. It’s slow going because I usually only listen to audiobooks when I am driving and I have not been driving a lot lately. Or at least alone.

Photos From Last Week

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night, but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.

If you would like to be the first to get news about my books or just have access to special posts for supporters, you can do so here for $2.99 a month https://lisahoweler.com/support-my-writing/


Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot for May 29

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

I share old movie clips on Facebook and Instagram, and while the majority of the comments on them are positive and uplifting, sometimes mean and out of line ones slip through. It’s weird how we humans tend to focus on the negative, because I find myself getting down about those negative comments, even though most comments are positive. My latest strategy is simply to delete them and move on.

I really do enjoy the nicer comments where someone shares how they loved watching a movie with a loved one who has passed on or who just shares a happy memory in general.

Alas, not all people are pleasant so I just have to take the good with the bad. The best thing about the negative comments is that I am learning to let things go more and let the miserable people be miserable. It’s teaching me to protect my peace and take longer breaks or just delete the comments altogether if they are too horrible.

Now, let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

We would love to have additional Co-Hosts to share in the creativity and fun! If you think this would be a good fit for you and you like having fun (come on, who doesn’t!) while still being creative, drop one of us an email and someone will get back with you!

WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: Linda from Bushel and a Pickle



A little about Linda:

I live in Central Pennsylvania in a very, very old farmhouse. Bushel & a Pickle is my blog. Sharing my life experiences that include home, food, travel, family and faith is a delight for me.

Thank you so much for joining us for our link-up!

And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

I love this post about cows from Life Captured

Joanne and her family enjoyed a lovely trip at a national park in Utah

Lisa is wondering about a man she sees on the beach

Honey Bears and Sydney Beans makes us aware of MS

Erin is having a frog and toad summer

Important things to know about the link-up:

This link party is for blog posts only. All other links will be deleted. 

Please link only blog posts you created yourself. 

Please link directly to the URL of your post and not the main address of your blog.

Please do not add links to videos, sales ads, or social media links such as YouTube videos or Shorts, Instagram or Facebook Reels, TikTok videos, or any other “social media” based content.

But do visit other blogs and give the gift of a comment.

Notice: By linking with Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, you assert that the content and photos are your own property. And you give us permission to share said content if your post or blog is showcased.

We welcome unlimited, family friendly content! This can include opinion pieces, recipes, travel recaps, fashion ideas, crafts, thrifting, lifestyle, book reviews or discussions, photography, art, and so much more! Thank you for joining us! 

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Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube and Facebook.


Sunday Bookends: More Agatha Christie and still sick cat

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing.

Happy Memorial Day weekend to all the Americans visiting today! To the rest of ya’….happy weekend!

This past week was fairly uneventful other than our oldest cat, Pixel, continuing to battle the same virus all our other indoor/outdoor cats battled. She also wedged herself in a dirty crawlspace in our basement, which led to my claustrophobic son having to climb in and get her out.

The youngest cat did fairly well with the virus but the two older cats ended up at the vet.

This week The Husband took Pixel to the vet 45-minutes away and then we drove up to pick her back up later in the day. She received an antibiotic, a fever reducer, and anti-nausea meds and perked back up some that night.

 Thursday and Friday she wasn’t doing well, though, and yesterday she was somewhat better but still sleeping a ton and not eating or drinking much.

Here is Pixel before she got sick. She’s so much skinnier now.

I wrote about the cat and some other things on my Saturday Link Up, which is a new link up for bloggers to share their posts of any kind — weekly round-ups or just posts you’d like to get some eyes on. Old posts are always welcome.

I hope Pixel gets better soon so I can write about more than my sick cats….not that I have a ton else going on in my life.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

I finished The Labors of Hercules this week. It is a collection of short stories by Agatha Christie featuring her detective Hercules Poirot.

I didn’t like the first couple of stories but pushed through and ended up enjoying some of the other stories, especially the final story, which I think should have been included in the collection first. I imagine a lot of people gave up on the collection because the first couple of stories really weren’t very good — well, to me anyhow.

The idea of the book was for Poirot to be working toward retirement and in order to make his last cases interesting, he decides to learn about his namesake, Hercules, and then mimic Hercules Twelve Labors.

There are 12 short stories to match up with the twelve labors. I will have a full review up at some point in the future.

In Progress

I am slow reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month.

I am currently reading The Cat Who Brought Down the House by Lilian Jackson Braun. It is a very slow-burning mystery. I’m on chapter 9 and the mystery just happened, but that is how Lilian’s books are. I am also reading Summer by the Tides by Denise Hunter. This is a women’s fiction/romance and so far it is heavy on women’s fiction but not heavy topic wise

Up Soon

I’ll be reading ABC Murders by Agatha Christie, Mystery Mile by Margery Allingham, and The Silver Chair by C.S. Lewis soon.

What The Family is Reading

Little Miss and I are continuing Heidi.

The Husband is reading Chasing the Bear by Robert B. Parker.

New arrivals to my bookshelf

This week I added Garage Sale Secret by Elizabeth Ludwig to my bookshelf, thanks to my husband, who grabbed it at a local library/used bookshop.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

This week I watched the first episode of The Other Bennett Sister, a movie called My Sister Eileen, and part of the Bette Davis movie The Letter.

This morning I am watching old videos of Just A Few Acres Farm. Sadly, Pete ended his YouTube channel but at least left the old videos up. I felt bad that he shut off all commenting on the video where he announced he was leaving. It seemed rather harsh to not let his fans thank him and say goodbye but I guess he was just over it all already. Plus, mixed in with the good comments will always be some bad and I think he was getting sick of the bad.

What I’ve Been Writing

This week on the blog I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

I am only listening to Jack Benny at nights before bed. I want to listen to some more music this upcoming week.

Recent Blog Posts I Enjoyed

Mountain Adventures by The Farm Wife Reads

Secondary Characters Who Took Center Stage by Great and Noble Tasks

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night, but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.

If you would like to be the first to get news about my books or just have access to special posts for supporters, you can do so here for $2.99 a month https://lisahoweler.com/support-my-writing/


Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot May 22

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

Let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

We would love to have additional Co-Hosts to share in the creativity and fun! If you think this would be a good fit for you and you like having fun (come on, who doesn’t!) while still being creative, drop one of us an email and someone will get back with you!

WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: Beth Wilson



A little about Beth:

I live in the South Bay, in a suburb of Los Angeles. We’re about a mile and a half from the Pacific Ocean as the crow flies. We live in a 1969 typical California tract house (bought in 1988) that we have remodeled. I am a wife, mother, Nana, retired librarian, blogger, professional genealogist, tablescaper, gardener, and cat lover. I have created over 300 themed tablescapes that are posted here on my blog under the heading Tablescapes. I am married to my high school sweetheart and I have a daughter and two sons and six grandchildren.  I spend my time researching my ancestors, tablescaping, gardening, reading, spending time with family, and trying to organize decades of stuff. We bought a small mountain cabin in the Sierra Nevada mountains a few years ago, and I will be spending time up there and maybe blogging about it too.

Thank you so much for joining us for our link-up!

And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

I Do De Claire is offering simple ways to elevate your outfit

Cat is talking about nostalgic memories of snails and they are so cute

Lydia is sharing what she’s been reading in May

Judee is serving up some tasty looking flourless bagles

Amy is painting an interchangeable truck wood wall decor

Melynda is sharing a Quick and Easy Chilies Rellenos Rice recipe

Important things to know about the link-up:

This link party is for blog posts only. All other links will be deleted. 

Please link only blog posts you created yourself. 

Please link directly to the URL of your post and not the main address of your blog.

Please do not add links to videos, sales ads, or social media links such as YouTube videos or Shorts, Instagram or Facebook Reels, TikTok videos, or any other “social media” based content.

But do visit other blogs and give the gift of a comment.

Notice: By linking with Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, you assert that content and photos are your own property. And you give us permission to share said content if your post or blog is showcased.

We welcome unlimited, family friendly content! This can include opinion pieces, recipes, travel recaps, fashion ideas, crafts, thrifting, lifestyle, book reviews or discussions, photography, art, and so much more! Thank you for joining us! 

You are invited to the Inlinkz link party!

Click here to enter
https://fresh.inlinkz.com/js/widget/load.js?id=c0efdbe6b4add43dd7ef

Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.


Sunday Bookends: A  missing cat, a returning cat, a good old movie, a bad old movie

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks, I share what I am listening to.

I hesitate to write about my cat drama yet another week, so I will keep it as short as I can this time around. If you follow my blog on days other than Sunday (and don’t worry if you don’t. There are just so many good blogs out there. It is terribly hard to keep up!) you will see that I already wrote about our family’s cat drama here and then here.

What I will share here is that our elder cat, Pixel, disappeared for four full days and five full nights, and because she is not a cat who has ever wandered away for more than a couple of hours, I was convinced she had died.

She had been sick before she disappeared, and when you grow up in a rural area with outside cats, you learn that they sometimes wander off to die. I did not think that Pixel was that sick when she disappeared so that was bewildering to me.

She’d been let out briefly last week while sick, but seemed to have recovered, and we didn’t imagine she was strong enough yet to take off. Apparently, she was because when we went back to find her under the bush she had been sitting under Sunday morning, she was gone.

To make a really long, emotionally distressing story short — she showed back up on our porch Thursday morning and I was in total shock.

She has been upstairs since then, not coming down to eat but instead preferring we bring her food to her, still recovering from the virus she had when she wandered off. She did jump up on a bed to sleep today, instead of snoozing under my son’s coffee table in his room or a bed or in a spot on the corner of the stairs, which is where she’s been since returning.

The Husband said she even came down to try to get back outside this morning.

I think not, cat. You don’t disappear for four full days and think you’re going back outside anytime soon.

We still do not know if she was in someone’s shed or where in the world she was.

Also, what happened to me making this story shorter?!

So…moving on….

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

I finished Nancy Drew: Nancy’s Mysterious Letter by Carolyn Keene.

I decided to put Thrush Green by Miss Read aside for a bit. I was about 50 pages in an just couldn’t get into it the way I had hoped to. I might try again later in the summer. Maybe it will hit me right where I need it then.

In Progress

I am slowly reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month.

I am reading The Labours of Hercules by Agatha Christie, which is a short story collection featuring her detective Hercule Poirot. I am not enjoying it as much as the standalone novels of hers I have read.

Up Soon

I found two books on my bookshelf that I want to start soon — one that I said I would read two summers ago but never did and another one that I thought I had read but haven’t.

The one I was going to read two summers ago is Summer By The Tides by Denise Hunter. I haven’ t read any of her books and might not enjoy it since it is romance, but I’m going to give it a try.

The one I thought I had already read is a Cat Who book by Lilian Jackson Braun — The Cat Who Brought Down the House. I have read most of the series, but have not read this one and a few more from the series so I added it to my summer hopefuls list.

What The Family is Reading

I am so proud of The Husband. I actually convinced him to not finish a book he was reading and hating. He usually pushes through no matter what, whining the entire time about how bad the book is. I don’t know why he does that when there are so many good books out there to read.

Maybe the book just isn’t for him. He needs to admit that and move on, so I told him that and this time, for the very first time, he actually listened to me about it. In order to take my advice, though, he said I had to pick out his next book.

I picked out the sixth, and latest, book in the Hawthorn and Horowitz mystery series, A Deadly Episode by Anthony Horowitz. So far he is breezing through it, so I picked well.

Little Miss and I are still reading Heidi.

The Boy is listening to a Warhammer book, but I forget which one.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

This past week I watched Dangerous with Bette Davis and did not like it. It was not very interesting and Bette was super whiney and dramatic in it. Plus it seemed to be a typical movie from the 1930s where “woman bad, man good” was the main theme.

I will talk about it more later this week when I write a blog post about it.

Yesterday I watched The Heiress with Olivia de Haviland and it was so  much better than Dangerous and just good overall. Olivia won an Oscar for her performance, and I can totally see why. I plan to write a blog post about this one as well.

I started My Sister Eileen last night as well. This one was recommended to me by my friend Heather. This particular movie is a  musical but there is a black and white movie with the same story called The Lady Eve. I plan to watch that one too.

What I’ve Been Writing

Last week on the blog, I shared:

What I/We’ve Been Listening To

I’m still listening to The Jack Benny Radio Show (a podcast with full episodes) when I go to bed. I often fall asleep before I can hear the entire episode, however, so I just load up the que each night and see how far I get – often waking up with episodes still playing and catching a bit more when I fall back asleep (I ask up a lot for a variety of reasons.)

Recent Blog Posts I Enjoyed

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night, but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.


Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot May 15

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

This has been a rough week that ended up with a good ending. The short version of a very long story is that our old cat who got sick last week disappeared Sunday. I announced on this blog I was certain she was dead for various reasons.

This morning, the cat showed up on our back porch. You can read that saga here: https://lisahoweler.com/2026/05/14/a-totally-baffling-update-on-my-missing-cat/

Now, let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

We would love to have additional Co-Hosts to share in the creativity and fun! If you think this would be a good fit for you and you like having fun (come on, who doesn’t!) while still being creative, drop one of us an email and someone will get back with you!

WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: This week we are spotlighting: Ink Torrents

I want to apologize that I did not highlight The Canary Family last week. I looked at the wrong date. I guess I was a bit flustered with our cat being sick (she wasn’t good that day but got better) and looked at the wrong blog. So here is a link to the Canary Family blog: https://cannaryfamily.blogspot.com/

Thank you so much for joining us for our link-up!

And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

Crafty Gardener Had Some Recent Visitors

Thrifting Wonderland is showing us how to make an event special

Musings and Glimpses is telling us how to make our homes smell like summer

God’s Growing Garden is making amazing peach ice cream

What a delightful bakery!

Doused in Pink is making spring dressing feel easy

Important things to know about the link-up:

This link party is for blog posts only. All other links will be deleted. 

Please link only blog posts you created yourself. 

Please link directly to the URL of your post and not the main address of your blog.

Please do not add links to videos, sales ads, or social media links such as YouTube videos or Shorts, Instagram or Facebook Reels, TikTok videos, or any other “social media” based content.

But do visit other blogs and give the gift of a comment.

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Sunday Bookends: Bookstore finds, cat number three gets the virus, and happy Mother’s Day

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

Even though our vet wasn’t initially sure, we now know that what has been making our cats sick is some sort of virus. We know this because a couple of days ago, our oldest cat started exhibiting the same symptoms as the other two — mainly being lethargic and refusing to eat or drink.

All of our cats have been vaccinated for distemper, so we aren’t sure what virus this is and neither does the vet.

The vet actually wanted us to bring our middle cat, Scout, to them Thursday to be observed all day but Wednesday night she perked up and not only started eating, but using the litter box.

I felt weird constantly observing her to see if she was going to use the litter box and was grateful when Little Miss saw her. I texted a friend and my husband when she finally went to the bathroom. This is where my life is — telling people when my cat has peed.

As was the case when the youngest started all of this, Scout started to feel better about the time our oldest cat, Pixel, started not to feel good.

Pixel is my buddy, similar to Scout, but more mouthy and sassy. If she chooses to lay on my chest or on my side (at night) then she pushes her way there whether I want her there or not. She often pushes her way into a cuddle when I am trying to work on my laptop or read a book or go to sleep. She sometimes doesn’t appreciate being moved in those moments, either. She will hiss and bite at me if I try to push her off, but luckily not every time.

She’s also the cat we call “fat cat” and she’s gotten fatter since I started feeding her wet food. One day she was sitting in our living room, a bit above me, and when I looked up at her I couldn’t see her chin.

I asked what had happened to her chin, she was so fat I couldn’t see it anymore, and she slowly turned my head and gave me this look :

A look that said, “Excuse me?”

Because, honestly, I’m having a similar issue with my chin and I knew she was thinking, “You don’t have anything to say, lady.”

Unlike Scout, Pixel has moved a little bit more in less time. Yesterday morning, about three days since her symptoms started, she jumped onto the bathroom sink counter, which she does when she is well, to get a drink of water. We have dishes of water down for the animals but I guess she wants it from the source. I was encouraged to see her looking for water that way.

She is still refusing to eat, however, which is what Scout did as well. And Pixel can be a lot more stubborn, so I really hope she pulls through.

I’m guessing by the way she was able to rip herself from the towel we had her wrapped  up in to give her her antibiotic yesterday morning, though, that she must be feeling a little bit better. We have an antibiotic, but since it is a virus, I don’t really think she needs it. This will have to run its course like a virus does for a human, I think.

Yesterday The Husband, the kids, and I visited a college town about an hour from us and stopped in to a small, used bookstore there.

Most of the books were political or historical from one standpoint, but there were a few treasures in the children’s section, including a stack of Hardy Boys books, which I only chose two from. One of them I grabbed by accident because I already have a copy of it, but the later, revised version. This one was published in 1939

I also found an Applewood Books version of a Hardy Boys book, which is a reproduction of the original manuscript.

I rounded out my purchases with The Giver by Lois Lowery and a collection of short stories and essays by Mark Twain.

The Husband also purchased a book of “booklover stickers” for me at the Barnes and Noble in town that I can’t wait to add to my reading journal.

I didn’t visit the Barnes and Noble because that one doesn’t usually have any books I am interested in. It’s a college town so there are a lot of romances and textbooks. I’m sure we will go another time and if we do I’ll check it out and see what’s there that I might like.

What I/We’ve Been Reading

Just Finished

Aloha Betrayal by Donald Bain. This was a Murder, She Wrote mystery, and it was very good, but I wanted a more definitive ending in some ways. It was a little open-ended but that made it more interesting than some of these assembly-line style book series that are out there.

In Progress

I am slow reading Stillmeadow Daybrook by Gladys Taber. Since each chapter is a month, I plan to read a chapter a month. I am also reading Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis.

I am also currently reading The Labours of Hercules by Agatha Christie for the 2026 Christie Reading Challenge and Thrush Green by Miss Read.

Up Soon

On tap soon is  Stolen Past – An Amish Inn Mystery and The Silver Chair by C.S. Lewis.

What The Family is Reading

The Husband just finished, The Big Gold Dream by Chester Himes. Little Miss and I are reading Heidi and she is reading The Dragon Rider by Ted and Rachel Dekker.

What I/We’ve Been Watching

I am watching Blandings and Ladies of Letters.

This past week I watched the movies Enchanted April and A Month In The Country.

I’ll be watching the Bette Davis movie Dangerous this week.

What I’ve Been Writing

Last week on the blog I shared:

Book and movie recommendation: The Enchanted April/Enchanted April

Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot May 8

Spring of Bette (Davis): Jezebel (1938). Otherwise known as the movie that made me say, “Well, that escalated fast.”

Top Ten – Er – Eight Authors I wish were Still Writing Today

A Good Book and A Cup of Tea May Link Up

When technology determines if your creativity is worthy or not, we have a problem

Photos From Last Week

Some Housekeeping

Erin (Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) and I host a monthly bookish link party called A Good Book and A Cup of Tea.  This link-up is for book and reading posts or anything related to books and reading (even movies based on books!). Each link party will be open for a month. You can find that link up for this month here.

Each week, I host the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot with some great hosts. It goes live Thursday night, but you can share any kind of blog posts (family-friendly) there until Tuesday of each week. You can check my recent posts on the sidebar to the right for the most recent link party.

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to, or writing?


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer,  Deb at with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date and Stacking the Shelves is hosted by Reading Reality.


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You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

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Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot May 8

Welcome to the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot, where we offer a place for bloggers to link up and get a fresh set of eyes on their posts. We also feature one blog a week, letting our readers know about the blog and providing a link so readers can learn more about it. Please feel free to post new blog posts or old ones you want to bring attention to again.

Look for the post to go live about 9:30 PM EST on Thursdays.

When you post online, you expect people to be mean these days, but when they are, it still sometimes can be a shock or sting. Especially when what they are upset about isn’t that big of a deal.

Today I opened up my Facebook page and I had spelled the name of a celebrity featured in a video I shared wrong and instead of politely telling me I had made an error a person wrote, “Gerald McRaney would appreciate you spelling his name right.”

The person who wrote that seemed to be a woman in her 60s or 70s, someone who should know better, and I was shocked by how nasty it was that I actually teared up. It wasn’t necessarily that it was directed at me that hurt me, it was that it reminded online how cruel, hurtful, and mean people can really be. I didn’t even know this person. They don’t know me. Why would they speak that way to me?

I went offline for much of the day after that, but when I was online, I focused on being kinder in my responses and reactions to people so I won’t be like that woman, who is spreading negativity and making people feel awful.

I also stopped and thought about the times in the past that I have lashed out at people because I was annoyed about something else. I made a mental note to be/do better in the future.

Now, let’s introduce our current hosts for the Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot:

Marsha from Marsha in the Middle started blogging in 2021 as an exercise in increasing her neuroplasticity.  Oh, who are we kidding?  Marsha started blogging because she loves clothes, and she loves to talk or, in this case, write!  

Melynda from Scratch Made Food! & DIY Homemade Household  – The name says it all, we homestead in East Texas, with three generations sharing this land. I cook and bake from scratch, between gardening and running after the chickens, and knitting! 

Lisa from Boondock Ramblings shares about the fiction she writes and reads, her faith, homeschooling, photography and more. 

Cat from Cat’s Wire is a bookworm, movie fan, crazy cat lady, armed with beads, cabs, wire and a very jumpy brain which loves to go down rabbit holes!

Rena from Fine, Whatever writes about style, midlife, and the “fine whatever” moments that make life both meaningful and fun. Since 2015, she’s been celebrating creativity, confidence, and finding joy in the everyday.

We would love to have additional Co-Hosts to share in the creativity and fun! If you think this would be a good fit for you and you like having fun (come on, who doesn’t!) while still being creative, drop one of us an email and someone will get back with you!

WTJR will be highlighting a different blogger each week this year! We invite you to stop by their blog, take a look around and say hello!

This week we are spotlighting: Ink Torrents



Thank you so much for joining us for our link-up!

And now some posts that were highlights for me this past week:

Shelbee is channeling her best Zombie (by The Cranberries that is!)

They’re Making Flower Petal Creations at Our Grand Lives!

I love Amy’s devotional coloring book!

I loved this inspirational post from Grace Filled Moments

Melynda is canning rhubarb! Yummmmm!

Important things to know about the link-up:

This link party is for blog posts only. All other links will be deleted. 

Please link only blog posts you created yourself. 

Please link directly to the URL of your post and not the main address of your blog.

Please do not add links to videos, sales ads, or social media links such as YouTube videos or Shorts, Instagram or Facebook Reels, TikTok videos, or any other “social media” based content.

But do visit other blogs and give the gift of a comment.

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You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

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Top Ten – Er – Eight Authors I wish were Still Writing Today

Top Ten Tuesday is hosted by That Artsy Reader Girl.

Today’s prompt is:  Authors You Wish Were Still Writing Today

I only came up with eight authors I wished were still writing, all of them long dead, but I think it’s a good list.

Agatha Christie

The fun she’d have with modern times and modern toys to mix in her plots. The only drawback is that some of her plot points might not work since we now have so many conveniences and cameras and things that could make getting away with murder even more difficult. That might be a challenge Agatha would love to take on, though.  

Margery Allingham

Margery would also love to use some of the more modern elements to knock off a few victims, I think. But she would write it in a much more poetic way than Agatha. This woman’s way with words….wow.

Erle Stanley Gardner

Perry Mason on his cellphone  telling Burger to stuff it where the sun don’t shine. Also, just more great stories with other characters — Bertha Cool on a podcast, telling everyone stories about her greatest cases.

L.M. Montgomery

I would love to read more sweet, touching stories by her. Whatever she wants to write. Clean, no swearing, just writing about every day life in a beautiful rural setting in Canada.

Donald Bain

Donald was a prolific ghost writer, but I just need him to write more Murder, She Wrote books that feel like authentic Jessica. I love how he makes her so real and fleshed out. He writes it from a first-person point of view and adds in her thoughts about her late husband Frank. She’s always so caring about her friends too. I mean, I really forget it is a man writing it. I feel like he’s truly seeing Jessica’s world through the eyes of a woman. I also love when he adds in history and facts about Maine or whatever city or country Jessica is visiting. He completely immerses you in the story.

Mildred Wirt Benson

I love Mildred’s children’s mystery books. If you don’t know, she was the author who helped create the Nancy Drew books and was the first Carolyn Keene. She later went on to write other children’s books with girl detectives, such as the Penny Parker series

I loved the plots she came up with and always find her plots in the Nancy Drew books so much better than ones written by other authors using the pseudonym.

Mildred wrote 130 books for juveniles and a few for adults. I hope to look up those adult ones soon.

J.R.R. Tolkien

I would love if Tolkien was still  writing and would infuse some of his wisdom and purity into fantasy books of today. He would, however, probably find some of his work edited so we don’t have to read so many descriptions of trees.

C.S. Lewis

I would love to particularly read Clive’s theological thoughts in relationship to the unique challenges of our modern world, which really aren’t that unique, but feel like they are. I would love to know what he thinks of the modern church, our crazy leaders, Christians who are so obsessed with politics that they’ve lost sight of Jesus…and so much more. I have a feeling he would anger so many people.

Are there any authors that you wish were still writing today?


If you write book reviews or book-related blog posts, don’t forget that Erin and I host the A Good Book and A Cup of Tea Monthly Bookish Blog Party. You can learn more about it here.

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Hello! Welcome to my blog. I am a blogger, homeschool mom, and I write cozy mysteries.

You can find my Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

You can also find me on Instagram and YouTube.