Sunday Bookends: Warmer weather and my socially introverted family

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watchingand what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

I took Little Miss to the little playground in our little town twice this week thanks to higher temperatures. They were high for us anyhow after coming out of a very arctic winter.

The first day it was close to 60 degrees Fahrenheit and the second day it was about 55 degrees. Friday it was over 60 degrees. Yesterday it was about 55 but still sunny and we took another trip to the playground with a friend of Little Miss’s.

Today it is pouring rain, and we are supposed to get some nasty storms.

I do like when it is warmer and sunny but still miss chilly days where I have an excuse to stay home. What I like most about the warmer weather, though, is being able to sit outside and not feel chilled to the bone.

That first day we went to the playground she made me smile by being brave and approaching a little girl she didn’t know and asking her if they could play together. She was nervous to approach the little girl because she said she is used to texting people not talking, which was weird for me to hear but also understandable in this modern age.

Some people think that homeschooled children are shy because they don’t interact with other children. My child does interact with other children through local homeschool activities, library activities, the local 4-H, a Bible program at a church near us, her friends, and Vacation Bible School. She’s still shy.

I attended public school all the way from Kindergarten to twelfth grade. I was shy all the way through and still am.

I know that public school can afford more opportunities to interact with peers but it isn’t always a positive interaction. I was able to interact with my peers and I hated it. I was an introvert through and through. Not a recluse but an introvert. Little Miss has a similar personality. She likes to socialize but when her meter is filled, which sometimes can happen fairly fast, she prefers to go off on her own and participate in quiet activities. My son is the same.

It cracks me up when we come back from an event or a friend goes home and she flops in her chair and says, “Whew! That’s enough social interaction for the week. I need some alone time.”

After she introduced herself to the little girl at the playground earlier this week, and they had played for a bit, she came over to me and said, “She wanted to add me to a group chat on her Messenger Kids (which is a Facebook app monitored by parents) but I’m  not ready for that.”

As a GenXer, it is crazy for me to hear that a 10-year-old is being invited to an online group chat by an 8-year-old. We did not exchange contact information with the little girl but if we had I would have had to contact her parents on Facebook, and we would both have to give permission for our children to talk. Then I would have had to be the one to be social with strangers. I was so relieved when Little Miss said she wasn’t ready for that level of interaction. Ha!

Little Miss and I have been attending 4-H cooking classes once a week for the last two weeks. Well, Little Miss has been doing the cooking, and I have been reading a book in the hallway. She really enjoys cooking and has been enjoying attending the class with a little girl who also goes to the church program o.

We attended the first class with my 81-year-old dad who, of course, immediately found someone to talk to while we waited for her. I had been worried he would be bored but he was not at all. He enjoyed talking to a young man there about local history as they looked at a mural on the wall in the building we were at. The Mural is beautiful and showcases history of the small town and county we were/are in.

Dad always seems to find someone to talk to no matter where we go.

I finished The Magician’s Nephew by C.S. Lewis last week.



I am reading the biography of James Herriot by his son Jim Wight very slowly because it is rather dull in many parts. I have had to skim a lot of unnecessary information about his time in veterinary school. It truly was unnecessary in my mind, but some readers may enjoy it.

Most of the time this week I have been reading The Case of the Careless Kitten by Erle Stanley Gardner. It’s a Perry Mason mystery and I am really enjoying it. I love Gardner’s style of writing and the banter between Lieutenant Tagg and Perry.

I am slowly reading The Two Towers by J.R.R. Tolkien.

I hope to start Emily of New Moon by L.M. Montgomery this week for Middle Grade March.

After that I will be starting Between the Sound and Sea by Amanda Cox.

The Husband is between books.

The Boy is also between books.

Little Miss is reading Harry Potter: The Prisoner of Azkaban.

This week I watched more Edwardian Farm, two episodes of Castle, my farmer on YouTube, and a Booktuber who was designing her reading journal.

I also started an old movie with Cary Grant that I did not enjoy at all, so I am going to be looking for another old movie this week.

I started writing book four of the Gladwynn Grant Mysteries last week.

Last week on the blog I shared:

Now it’s Your Turn!

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.


This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at  Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, The Sunday Salon with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date.


In addition to my blog, I write fiction, and you can learn more about my books here: https://lisahoweler.com/my-books-2/

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20 thoughts on “Sunday Bookends: Warmer weather and my socially introverted family

  1. The warming trend has been appreciated, but I’m waiting for more light to arrive for an early morning walk. The time change always presents challenges. I’m planning to again read a novel with a Montana setting, written by Stanley Gordon West . . . Blind Your Ponies. The past few nights I finished watching “Mrs. Miniver” with lead roles played by Greer Garson and Walter Pidgeon. It’s uses a World War II setting that follows an English family.

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    • Oooh… is it a western or mystery? I will have to look it up! I want to look for that movie too. I like having it light out longer in the evening but adjusting to the change takes me a week or more most years.

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  2. I am a very shy person though no one believes it because I’m so good at masking it! I don’t really suffer from social interaction overload, though. Once I’m in a situation and comfortable, I can stay for a long time. It’s when I’m uncomfortable that I want to leave. That’s usually when I can’t think of anything to say, or no one speaks to me.

    We watched “The Last Showgirl,” and I’m still trying to process it. Was it a good movie? What was its message because it obviously had one? I’m still reading We Solve Murders. I’m determined to finish it because I’m just that stubborn. I usually really like Richard Osman’s books. I think it’s because it’s missing those feisty oldsters from the other books.

    I’m done writing my mini-retreat and actually giving it on Saturday!

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  3. I had to laugh at Little Miss’ comment about enough social interaction. I’m not a huge introvert but sometimes I’m just “peopled out.” That’s why I just HAD to purchase a refrigerator magnet at the Kennedy Space Center when we were recently in Florida. What did it proclaim? “I Need My Space!”

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  4. Good for your daughter in daring to reach out to another kid on the playground. I think real life is much more challenging these days than it ever was when I was a kid.

    I’m on People Overload right now after three days of gatherings of family and friends. I’m with your daughter: “Whew! That’s enough social interaction for the week. I need some alone time.”

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    • It’s starting to be like that for me too. I have thyroid issues and was told I would feel cold more than normal but I have for the 15 years I’ve been diagnosed. Last year it started to bother me more and more! I have to put warm rice packs on my feet to keep them warm in the winter most of the time. I don’t respond to extreme heat very well either. I am a bit of a mess.

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  5. Yay for some warmer days! It is nice to be able to get out. We’ve had snow here, but it’s all melted now so just rain and better weather. The Case of the Careless Kitten sounds fun. Hope you have a wonderful week!

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    • I have been dealing with a bad knee but I am very hopeful I can walk more as the weather gets better. My issue is my driveway is steep so going down it puts pressure on the knee. It is slowly healing though so I’ll probably risk it jus so I can take a walk.

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