Saturday Evening Chat: Meeting fellow bloggers, no link party here, and flowers are blooming

Hello! Good Saturday evening. This was supposed to go up this afternoon, but life got busy so it got delayed.

Sit down and have some tea and a snack with me. My sister-in-law sent a whole bunch of tea with my brother when he visited last week so I have a variety for you to choose from. A honey ginger tea, green tea with lemon, Earl Gray, one for relaxation (I may ten cups of that tonight!), and a couple of others. And, of course, I have my go-to, plain peppermint.

First, a bit of housekeeping:

This post will no longer be a link party. Why? Because there are so many link parties out there already that I am a part of or participate in and they are great. And because I like my Saturday posts just to be a chat post with my blog followers.

If you are looking for a link party to participate in, I co-host one with three lovely blogger ladies that goes live on Thursday nights. The Weekend Traffic Jam Reboot goes live about 9:30 p.m. each Thursday (unless I’m late like this week. Whoops!) and if you scroll on my right-hand sidebar you should find the link to the latest one.

I also have added a link to parties I participate in at the top of my page.

I am going to leave up my monthly link-up for all things book-related. You can find a link to the A Good Book and A Cup of Tea link party at the top of my page.

With all of that out of the way, on to today’s post which will be about pretty much nothing. Ha!

No, it will be about something. I did actually do a few things this past week.

One very exciting something I did this past week was meet the blogger at Mama’s Empty Nest this past week. I don’t know if she shares her first name on her blog or not, since I’ve never seen her do it, so I won’t share it here. I’ll just call her C.

Over the years, I have loved reading C’s stories about her various trips across our country or into Canada. I have also been blessed and encouraged by the posts she shares about her faith. She’s hit a bit of a snag with her blog lately because WordPress says she is almost out of storage space and is trying to force her to upgrade. She likes to share photos from her various travels, so this has created quite the conundrum for her. and I am about in the same boat. The snag has led to her taking a bit of a break from her blog while she tries to reduce what’s in her storage. It’s also led to her and I both feeling like Wordress stinks a bit as a blog host.

C and her husband are trying to travel to each county in the state of Pennsylvania in the next few years. They are from the western part of Pennsylvania and I am in the East so they were able to mark a few more counties off their list this week, including mine.

C was also able to mark off seeing yet another covered bridge, which is another goal of hers. We have a beautiful covered bridge about 20 minutes from us that is located next to one of our favorite restaurants, so I suggested that as our meeting place. It let C check off two of her goals in a row — visiting another county and seeing a covered bridge.

Of course, they actually did see our county on their way through to visit Williamsport in Lycoming County. They were even able to see our county’s one stoplight in the middle of the town I live in. How terribly exciting for them. Ha!

The Husband had a later-than-planned day of work that day and The Boy wasn’t feeling well, so in the end it was just Little Miss and I who met with them. We were excited to introduce them to our local Philadelphia cheesesteak place. The restaurant is owned by someone who is originally from south Philadelphia. There are a variety of different ways to make a cheesesteak in Philadelphia and Big Mike (the restaurant owners) offers it a few different ways. C and her husband had never tried a cheesesteak with cheese whiz so they were excited to try one.

We had a nice dinner of cheesesteaks and chicken salads, sweet potato fries, and fried pickle chips, sitting on the picnic tables by the restaurant, overlooking the Loyalsock Creek and the Forksville Covered Bridge.

Little Miss is very shy around her peers and tends to open up more to adults at times. She usually opens up more when she gets to know a person, but for some reaso,n she connected immediately with C and her lovely husband.

C said later, maybe it is because they gave off “cool grandparent vibes” and Little Miss had to agree.

C and her husband have four grandchildren, one of them Little Miss’s age, and from what I have read on her blog, they really are the cool grandparents.

Little Miss loved sharing all kinds of stories with them and showing them photos of a range of pets and people from her life. She also enjoyed feeding the birds and a chipmunk hopping around the outside tables.

After filling our bellies and chatting, C and her lovely husband were back on the road again, with plans to leave the next day for home. Before leaving C gifted me with a box of Amish Inn Mysteries books after she read on my blog that I have been reading them. I’d take a photo of them to post here but they are in the back of my car, which isn’t here at the moment since  my husband is using it to pick up a friend of Little Miss’s for a playdate.

I am not including photos of myself here, even though we took a photo together, because I don’t enjoy photos of myself, but here is a lovely photo of the covered bridge.

C and I met on Wednesday. On Thursday I went to my parents to help clean and ended up chatting the afternoon away with the wife of a man who came to purchase some old collector bottles from my dad.

My grandmother collected bottles for years and also won awards for her collection. Those bottles are still at my parents but with them getting older and me not having room for the collection my dad is beginning to sell them off.

It will be hard to let them go but there simply isn’t any way to keep everything.

On Friday, the kids and I had to stop at two government offices for various reasons and pick up groceries. It was a frustrating day in many ways and that really isn’t a surprise since the previous sentence included the words, “government offices.”

I believe frustration is the main feeling you end up with after dealing with government offices. That and anger. Sometimes even rage  — especially when those offices have new rules every time you walk in the door.

One week they allowed us to use certain documentation to obtain a replacement social security card for our son and two weeks later they denied us the ability to do the same for our daughter. I truly feel that government employees either don’t actually know the rules, don’t care about the rules, or change the rules every time a new person comes in just to make their own, mundane life more exciting.

We did come home with what The Boy needed from his government office visit, but not what Little Miss needed.

After we came home, I tripped over a shovel in our garage and fell hard on my hands and needs on the concrete floor. I landed on both knees but more so the knee which had only just healed up from a fall on our sidewalk last summer.

There are many reasons I hate summer, and I can add falling on my face at least once during the season to that list now, apparently.

I actually didn’t fall right on my face, but close to it.

I bent my glasses, possibly cracked my phone (I found that crack later in the evening), and was left with a very bruised knee. Despite all that, I feel very lucky. Usually, a fall like that leaves me very, very sore the next day and could have left me with a broken bone, but I’m doing fairly well today. The knee isn’t feeling too great, but it isn’t as painful as it was last year when I twisted it.

While I was sitting and trying to recover from my fall, my mom called and said my dad was having chest pains that were radiating to his back so The Husband ran out the door and drove him to the ER. Dad refused an ambulance.

Because my mom has been having falls lately (luckily ones that have just left her on her bottom and not seriously injured), I headed over to stay with her, limping into the house. I left there at midnight after Dad had a clean-bill of health from the ER. They determined he had gas and a severe muscle pull.

This afternoon I had a Crafternoon with Erin from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs and others. I am also not leaving my house for the next several days for my mental and physical health.

We are scheduled to have dangerous heat for the next four or five days and my nerves are a bit shot from yesterday. We already have a heat advisory in place. Humidity is supposed to be very high on top of temperatures in the low to mid-90s.

 Heat and I don’t mix well together. It bothers my asthma and other issues.

The roses outside my house bloomed in full force this week but are quickly falling off and will be gone by the end of the week most likely. I will miss them as they seem to be one of the few highlights for me in summer.

The rest of summer is a muggy, hot, yucky mess that leaves me not feeling good. This year we won’t have a pool at my parents because it has become too much for my dad and us to maintain. This is disheartening to both me and Little Miss because we enjoyed it so much.

 So there has been a mix of sadness and happiness going on in my neck of the woods lately.

How about you? How was your week last week?

I’d love to hear about it in the comments, or you can leave me a link if you have a weekly round up post of some kind.


Lisa R. Howeler is a blogger, homeschool mom, and writes cozy mysteries.

You can find her Gladwynn Grant Mystery series HERE.

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18 thoughts on “Saturday Evening Chat: Meeting fellow bloggers, no link party here, and flowers are blooming

  1. What lovely flowers! I’m sorry to hear about your fall and hope you’re feeling better by now when I finally get to this point in my blogs! I was sorry to miss Crafternoon, too – I had to go to a PARTY, which is very unlike me: it was a member of our parkrun core team’s 50th birthday and he invited the team, which was very nice. We didn’t mix with the others or dance but it was nice to see everyone and Mike did a very heartfelt speech. Also as I’m 53 the music was of my era!

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  2. Since you know I’ve been bogged down with attempting to best WP on my storage problem, I am just now getting around to commenting. Here’s my take-away: 1. It was WONDERFUL meeting you and your sweet daughter! 2. The covered bridge was beautiful! 3. The original Philly cheesesteaks were delish! (Thanks for arranging to meet us there!) 4. Your area of our state is quite lovely and we enjoyed our trek through the forested areas, mountainy hills, and twisty roads (because we’re used to that here in western PA too.) 5. I hope you enjoy those books. Now it’s your turn to come visit us! 😉

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  3. Whew! Glad your fall wasn’t any worse, and glad that your Dad is ok too. These accidents and health issues sure can leave us shaking! The bottle collection is very fascinating. For a time when he was younger, my husband used to go bottle digging. He only found 1 that was really worth a lot, and that came from a neighbor of his Grandma. It helped him buy his first car tho. It was a used 1965 mustang that he was driving when I met him. 🥰

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  4. It’s always nice to meet online friends in person. I rarely get the chance because most of them are not in Germany and don’t come here or still too far away for me, but I met some ladies from my cat forum.
    Sounds as if you really had fun! 😀

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  5. Wow, quite a week. I hope the next week is better! If you water the roses will they last longer? The heat here shortened the blooming time of the peonys that I didn’t water (the ones the hose didn’t reach)

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    • Yes, watering them will help some but sometimes they just go when they are ready to go…naturally. Sadly. *sniff* For the peonies I also need to prune them back a little bit to help them grow better next year too.

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  6. I met a new/fellow blogger this week too! Dara from Not in Jersey and her family were in Newport Rhode Island so I drove over to meet up with them. They are just as darling in real life as they are on the blog. I hope you knee is feeling better real soon!

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  7. How wonderful to meet a blogger! I have met exactly one and found she was just as lovely in person as on her blog. I will probably hit that same roadblock with wordpress because I’m so photo heavy on my posts. I should cut back on that, right? Just tell me I should, OK? The thing is Mike loves taking the photos. He doesn’t read the blog, though, so he’d never know. I tried deleting photos from old posts just thinking I was deleting them from the library. Well, duh, the library is where the post pulls the photos from (bad grammar, I know). So, some of my old posts look really weird! I tell you…blogging is not for the faint of heart!

    I hope your knee soon feels better. I ended up with another shot in my right knee and the news that both would need replacing in the next 5-10 years. Not what I wanted to hear at all. And, then the heat hits. Ugh…I’ve got the drapers all pulled closed which makes the house dark. During the winter, I’m OK with that. And, as much as I am not a fan of summer, I do like the natural light. My allergies have been worse this year, too. Is it too soon to say I’m ready for October?

    Hope you have a good week staying inside which is what I would like to be able to do…something going on every day this week, though!

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    • We are way too similar! I did the same thing with the photos and then made my posts look weird! Argh!

      The knee is surprisingly doing okay at the moment. Laying down at night is when it seems to be hurting, which is when it was worse last time.

      We pull the drapes and blinds too. It is something my mom taught us. She was brought up down south before air conditioners and that’s how they kept it cool. My husband and son say things like, “We need fresh air! Open the windows!” And I tell them if they need fresh air then they can just go outside. I am doing my best to keep the cool air in. Sadly, this year, it will be more of a challenge since our big maple was cut down. We’ve only had a couple of hot days and the whole closing up the house thing didn’t work as well as it did other years.

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