Saturday Afternoon Chat Link Up: VBS, pretty churches, and the end of homeschooling for one child

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Yesterday we met with our homeschool evaluator and school is now officially over for this year.

We drive 45 minutes one way to meet with her each year.

This week it was a long drive after a week of driving to VBS 20 minutes one way and spending two hours there each night for a few nights. We missed Tuesday night because of a flat tire on our car and Thursday night The Husband drove her. This was VBS at a church we don’t belong to.

I appreciated that because I’ve been having pain in my neck and driving around the windy roads and curves and hills we live on flared it up quite a bit.

I enjoyed taking her on the days, though, because we were able to chat about different things and watch for animals together while we were driving to and from VBS.

Little Miss is fairly independent and usually attends most events without us but lately she’s been a little clingy. She wanted me to stay with her during VBS since she didn’t know anyone, but she got involved easily and most of the time didn’t mind if I was there or not. I didn’t follow her around. Instead, I simply sat in the back of the sanctuary on very pretty, but uncomfortable pews.

 She would run up to me off and on and get a hug, almost like a reassurance. The next day I told her I would probably sit in the car and read that night instead of sitting in the church, but she said she wanted me to be in the church.

“You don’t need me,” I told her. “You were having fun without me.”

“Yes, but it’s just nice knowing you’re there,” she told me.

That definitely got me in the heart and left me feeling emotional. I didn’t mind sitting in the church as much after that and enjoyed the hugs she gave me when she ran back to me. Plus, the church has beautiful stained glass windows and it was nice to look at them and watch the sun pour through them.

Two of the days of VBS were very hot but the rest of the week the weather was pretty much perfect. The hot temperatures are gone again for now, but it is not as cold as it was in May. I prefer the cooler temps, though. Not freezing, but cooler. The heat and humidity really takes a toll on me. Much worse than simply feeling too hot.

Yesterday our drive to the homeschool evaluator was uneventful. It was a little emotional for me because it is the last time The Boy will be evaluated now that he has graduated. This marks the end of our six-year homeschooling journey together, and he’s thrilled, but I’m going to miss it.

I loved picking out a curriculum for him and learning it with him. The last two years were pretty hard because he was pretty much over school, but we made it, and he’s ready for his next steps..

Little Miss and I will be continuing homeschooling for this next year and I’m planning to use a curriculum but also be open to more deviations from strict curriculum, as long as it is still educational.

I’m looking forward to our school year and to using art and literature even more than I did last year. I also have my eye on a really interesting music curriculum. Looking for different curriculum is a highlight of my summers, so I do feel a sense of loss not looking for curriculum or books for The Boy this year.

There is another VBS at another church this upcoming week, but we haven’t decided if we are attending it or not. There are two or three other VBS events this summer we hope to attend as well. And there are also 4-H events coming up. So we might have a busy summer, but maybe also a relaxed one at times.

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13 thoughts on “Saturday Afternoon Chat Link Up: VBS, pretty churches, and the end of homeschooling for one child

  1. Congratulations on officially completing homeschool with the boy! What an accomplishment. I know it feels weird, but you both really have crossed a huge milestone. I hope you have some time to enjoy it. The years go by so fast …

    And, those sound like fun activities for the summer. I will be keeping you all in my prayers for energy and restored health❤️🙏

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  3. Love those stained glass windows. Look up Birmingham Cathedral (St Phillip’s) – we have windows by Burne-Jones and they’re wonderful. And how bittersweet to have done so well with the homeschooling but then finishing it for your son. Goodness.

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  4. Some of my best childhood memories revolve around VBS. I’m so glad Little Miss has other opportunities for this kind of activity. I would have been a little puddle of tears after she said that. Sometimes, we don’t even know how much our kids need us…even when they’re 42 years old.

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  5. What a beautiful church and how could you say no to a lovely request like that?! We just got home from Maine last night and we had a fabulous week of hiking and biking with some really nice weather.

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  7. It sounds like Little Miss is going to have a lot activities to keep her (and you!) busy! I am sure she is going to have a blast!

    Also this – “Yes, but it’s just nice knowing you’re there,” she told me.” Were you trying to make me teary? That is so sweet.

    And your year next year will be different but it will be good. Maybe some days you can homeschool the Boy again just for fun. Lol. And you will always read books and discuss them with each other!

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