Let me pour you a cup of tea and we can chat

Can I get you some tea?

I’ve got some herbal and regular and chamomile, but chamomile makes me sleepy. Does it make you sleepy?

Well, anyhow, I thought it would be nice to catch up today and just chat.

My bloggy friend Erin has a coffee chat feature she shares on her blog, but I don’t drink coffee, so I thought today I’d offer some tea instead. Then again, if you’d like some coffee, I can make some in the Keurig. I think. I tried one time, and my son said it was fairly watery so…maybe you’d better make the coffee.

I have milk for cocoa but it’s lactose free, if you’re okay with that.

I’ve been drinking lactose-free milk (Lactaid brand) since it first came out when I was maybe 11 or 12.

Before that I either had no milk or soy milk. I’ve been lactose-intolerant my entire life and I generously passed it on to my first born. Luckily, Little Miss doesn’t have the same issue. Not yet anyhow. My mom developed the issue when she became an adult and my brother was older when he started having issues with dairy as well.

Anyhoooo….I digress, which is actually what I intend to do for this entire post.

The other night The Boy and I were talking about his blog nickname, which I chose as a joke because The Husband always comes home from work and says “Where is The Boy?”, but now keep using because I don’t have any other ideas for blog nicknames. I don’t know why I don’t use the children’s real names on here. I mean, I have my real name on here so people can figure out my kid’s names, but I guess I just like the whole nickname thing so I have stuck with it.

I also have no idea where I picked up “Little Miss.” My daughter is not dainty or proper by any means and maybe that’s why I chose it. Because she’s the exact opposite. *snort*

We have had some nice, sunny days here and despite almost all of our leaves having already blown off, we still have a few bright colored ones hanging in there and helping to make everything beautiful. Little Miss is getting as much trampoline jumping in as she can before the snow starts to fall and our neighbor puts up their trampoline.

Our evenings are cool, which has brought animals to the ends of our beds and in some cases right onto my chest. Winter is cuddle season around here and it’s when our youngest cat, Scout, seems to revert back to being a kitten. She still likes to curl up on my chest, even though she doesn’t fit as well anymore. I hate to move when she curls up that way but I have to hold my arms a certain way to give her a bed and eventually my arms give out. Yesterday I had cat fur up my nose but hated to move her. Cuddles with her are a rare thing for much of the year so I have to take it when I can get it.

When I find myself dreading winter because of the dark, cold days that loom ahead, I remember that at least I will be able to cuddle under a fuzzy, warm blanket with a cup of tea or cocoa, a cat or dog curled up on me, and hopefully a good book in my hand or a cozy mystery on TV. The mention of a warm beverage reminds me — do you need yours warmed up? I usually have to warm my tea up about five times a day, if not more, just like coffee drinkers have to do.

The Boy has been working every Tuesday and Thursday with his grandpa, a tradition we started around the same time we started homeschooling at the end of the 2017-2018 school year. I’m really glad that my son has this time with his grandfather and that my dad can have some extra help around the house and property.

We are continuing homeschooling lessons, but I am a lot less strict this year than I have been in previous years. I am still requiring “book learning” so to speak but if the opportunity for a hands-on experience comes up, that trumps books and worksheets any day. I don’t even mind if the opportunity is what others might not consider “educational.” If we have the opportunity to get out of the area on a drive or spend time with family, homeschooling gets laid aside and we go.

Earlier this month we visited my 89-year-old aunt, traveled 90 minutes away to take Little Miss to a small (very small) Build-A-Bear store, and grocery shopped in place of more traditional math, reading, history or science lessons. Each opportunity offered its own unique lessons, even math when it comes to grocery shopping trips. Those trips also help to teach the children how to interact with others and offer assistance to strangers when needed.

In some ways, I find the life lessons more valuable than the “traditional” lessons and I am more grateful for them this year than in previous school years. I used to feel like I failed as a homeschooling parent if my children didn’t complete a list of traditional assignments I had for them. It’s taken me almost five years to break out of the mindset that homeschooling has to be like traditional school and now that the wall has been broken it is a liberating feeling and one I plan to continue doing.

I’ve found myself drawn to lighter movies or shows as the news of the world becomes heavier and heavier and more and more upside down. Recently I have enjoyed watching my favorite, sweet and innocent kisses from movies, including this one, from The Quiet Man (parodied in ET), which is pretty much my all time favorite.

I miss the days when kisses in movies were sweet and tongue free, or at least you didn’t see the tongues swirling around each other while characters attempted to suck each other’s face off.

As I sit here in my living room with schoolbooks piled around me (I just finished lesson planning for the week), Little Miss chatting with a friend on her phone (they can video chat through Kids Messenger), and the animals sprawled on various pieces of furniture, snoring away, I am trying to bring to mind other favorite movie kisses that aren’t gratuitous and cringeworthy.

Let’s see, there is:

  • Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward in From the Terrace, even though I hated the movie overall;
  • Anything with Lauren Bacall and Humphrey Bogart
  • Cary Elwes and Robin Wright in The Princess Bride
  • Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed in It’s A Wonderful Life (when she’s on the phone and he’s listening in and he’s so close and wants to kiss her and it overwhelms him and … swoooon)
  • Rhett and Scarlet in Gone With the Wind
  • And Mark Darcy and Bridget Jones at the end of Bridget Jones’ Diary.

I guess I’ll have to bring this chat to a close. I need to read my son’s history lesson so I know what he is learning, teach Little Miss history (we are reading a book about George Washington Carver instead of reading lessons in a book) and reading, and then get ready to make dinner early so I can take Little Miss to gymnastics for her make up class.

I hope you enjoyed your cup of tea (or coffee) and our chat. We’ll do it again soon.

16 thoughts on “Let me pour you a cup of tea and we can chat

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  2. Sweet post! I love that you have nicknames for the kids on your blog although now you’ve sparked my curiosity at their real names!😂
    And I’ll agree learning through life (rather than book work) seems to be the best!!
    Hope you enjoy all the cozy cuddles you can as the cold weather plops down for the next few months!😬

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  3. As I sip my hot tea, I’m enjoying your post. No coffee for me. Like you, I don’t even know how to make it properly. Sounds like your kids are getting a well-rounded education and that’s what is important. I agree with the kissing scenes now — ewww is what I usually think. Everything has to be sexual, doesn’t it? Leaves are falling here too but we are enjoying some warm weather for now. Thanks for the chat. 🙂

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    • I felt foolish writing that all our leaves are gone because when I drove my daughter to gymnastics last night there were still tons of gorgeous leaves all over the trees! If we hadn’t been running late I would have pulled over and taken some photos. I guess we get to have autumn a little bit longer! Yeah!

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  4. Ooh, I’d love a cup of black tea. It feels like it’s been ages since it was last cool where I live, but now it felt practically freezing when I dropped the kids off at school. Time to break out the hot beverages, I hope.

    Ugh, all that sloppy kissing is just disgusting to watch. And, weirdly, it always makes me feel like a voyeur. I much prefer shows and movies without kissing. Though my family has taken to watching a lot of Chinese historical dramas and the kissing is so chaste it’s sweet, and it’s also kept to a minimum, which is really nice.

    I don’t think I could ever homeschool the way you do, but it certainly sounds a lot more educational. What better way to practice than take it straight into the real world? I always hated math teachers who told me I would use such and such one day in real life. As far as I know, I definitely haven’t. My husband is too traditional when it comes to school, so it’s better if our kids learn at school and I find as many real world applications as possible. But, sigh, I really like the sound of your method.

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    • I don’t normally do homeschool that way and we have still been doing “book work” don’t get me wrong, but I also have found that having a mix of both days helps them on the days when I do more strict “traditional” work.

      Yeah, the kissing thing is weird. I don’t need to see the tongues and all the other stuff. Just…no. lol

      I think warm tea is so relaxing, even on warm days.


  5. Camomile makes me sleepy too. I drink lactose free milk. I am struggling to sleep right now, so I just warmed some lactose free milk and I added a tot of rum. I am hoping that does the trick!

    Most on screen kisses make me cringe!!


  6. Perfect timing! I literally just sat down with a cup of mint tea! And no I don’t drink chamomile tea – I am allergic to it. 😦

    And, I totally agree with your swoon worthy kisses. The Princess Bride is one of my favorite movies of all time. And GWTW, although I know that is frowned on now but I don’t care, I love that movie. And I love Colin Firth. Sigh.

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