Welcome to Sunday Bookends where I ramble about what I’ve been reading, doing, watching, writing, and listening to.
What I/we’ve Been Reading
This week I started a book I needed to read for a book tour and had a hard time enjoying it. I feel bad for that and for skipping through most of it so I’m going to go back this week and read it a little slower. The book is called The Prayer Shawl by Jenny Lynn Cary and it has a sweet premise of two cousins making amends, but I just couldn’t seem to enjoy the dueling storylines in it.
The book is about two cousins who do not get along well and are brought back together after their grandmother dies. Their grandmother raised the one cousin, Cami, after her parents died and now Grandma (Kate) has left directions for Cami to complete a task before she can receive her inheritance. This is not the first time I have either read a book with this plot point. I’ve also seen it in movies. My question is if it really ever happens in life and how a lawyer can actually ensure the person’s last request is met appropriately when these tasks are often so vague.
Elderly relatives leaving money only if the heir completes a task, is a very common plot point in Christian Fiction and romances these days, I have discovered. I feel it is becoming a little bit overused, but it does create some interesting storylines and characters, which is what happened in Cary’s book. I do like her writing style and the characters she creates so I want to give the book another chance this week.
It really wasn’t fair that I started Cary’s book at the same time I started an ARC by a favorite author of mine, Robin W. Pearson. I mentioned last week that I was reading the book which comes out at the end of July. The book flows so smoothly and the characters are so real that it is hard to put down. Robin’s books don’t have a lot of “action” per say and some readers might not like that, but I don’t mind at all because Robin’s action is in the way she makes the reader think. Plus, there is a bit of mystery to this one and I have to keep reading to find out secrets the dad and son are both holding on to.
So far, the book is tackling race issues, as well as family relationships. It’s a different take on race issues for me because I am used to reading books where the racist feelings are directed toward African Americans. That does happen some in this book, but it’s also directed toward the wife in the book who is mixed race with light skin and married to an African American. The book has some heavier topics than other books, but it isn’t so heavy you can’t stand up.
I’ve also started The Darling Buds of May by H.E. Bates for some lighter fare. This book was one of my Mother’s Day gifts from last week.
Little Miss and I were reading Paddington but we are back to Laura Ingalls Wilder. Please, someone send help. I am tired of reading the Little House books. I need to find something else to interest her.
The Husband (I feel weird calling him “The Husband” as if that is his title. I asked him as I wrote this, if he wanted me to use his real name or if he wants a blog nickname like the kids. He said he is fine with me simply calling him The Husband.) finished The Hundred Year Old Man Who Went Out the Window.
There is a sequel to the book, but my husband said it dives into politics and he gets enough of that at work these days so he’s decided not to read it. He is now reading Shots Fired by C.J. Box.
The Boy is still reading Smoke and Mirrors by Neil Gaiman.
What’s Been Occurring
I had a very nice Mother’s Day last week. I visited my parents for a little bit on the actual day but we had visited with them for dinner on Saturday because my dad had a minor procedure on Monday and couldn’t eat Sunday.
My husband and children bought me the book I mentioned above, a new journal, and a new purse. The Husband also made dinner for me on Mother’s Day on the grill and drew me a bath, which was wonderful.
The day ended with him and The Boy making me watch the latest Spider-man which was a bit depressing honestly and not my favorite. I’m over the whole comic book schtick requiring the hero to suffer and go through life alone. That’s all I’ll say about that.
The weather finally warmed up which helped my sinuses immensely. Aren’t you glad I won’t be lamenting every Sunday about how hard it has been for me to breathe? At least for a while anyhow.
During the week we spent as much time as we could outside, or at least Little Miss and I did. We chased each other in the yard in a game she simply calls “Zombie.” All the chasing showed me that my lungs are not totally healed from the crazy sinusitis-type thing I had all through April and the Dreaded Virus last year but they are way better than they were.

One day during the week we visited my parents and made pizza for dinner. Our oven is currently broken so this gave us a chance to use up the dough I’d purchased (forgetting about the oven issue) and to see my parents. Zooma The Wonder Dog enjoyed rolling in the dirt road, covering herself with dust, and I enjoyed watching the Canadian geese who have decided to take up residence in my parent’s pond. That pond has been there my entire life and I have never seen geese land there or stay there. I’m interested to see if they have lain eggs there or not.

On Friday we visited a restaurant we really enjoy but which isn’t open during the winter. It’s located pretty much in the middle of nowhere by a beautiful covered bridge. We chose to sit at the tables outside the building and then admired the creek and covered bridge during our meal and afterward. The restaurant makes amazing cheesesteaks.
They are so amazing they were named one of the top ten cheesesteaks in the state of Pennsylvania. It’s no surprise they are so good since the owners are originally from Philly. Ironically, no one ordered an actual cheesesteak. I had a cheesesteak salad, so that was close. The husband had a buffalo chicken cheesesteak, The Boy a chicken wrap, and Little Miss a chicken tenders basket.
The boys also ordered some Jersey Dirty Fries, which are French fries with cheese whiz, barbecue sauce, garlic sauce, and bacon on top.
When we came home, I sat on the back porch in silence and just enjoyed the beautiful weather and view, petting our dog and cat, and reading. I didn’t have my phone or computer near me and it was the most relaxed I’d been all week.
What We watched/are Watching
This week I start watching that old show J.A.G. — Do you remember it? Lt. Harmon Rabb. Swoon. I remember watching the show in high school. If I remember right, it got a little crazy at the end, but most shows do. I enjoyed it at the beginning at least. It was nice to be nostalgic this week and to see the show now that I’m older and understand a little more about, well, everything.
Enjoy the comments on this Youtube video, by the way. Most of them are slamming all the military errors on the show.
As I mentioned above, we also watched the latest Spider-Man and it wasn’t my favorite. There were aspects I enjoyed but there were also some heartbreaking aspects that simply brought me down into the dumps.
Friday, after our trip to the restaurant, we watched another Brokenwood Mysteries.
What I’m Writing
I worked on Mercy’s Shore this past week and shared Chapter 2 on Friday.
I did not share much on the blog but hope to this upcoming week. I am working on a Randomly Thinking and maybe a post about our last couple of weeks of homeschooling.
What I’m Listening To
I’ve been listening to CeCe Winan’s Believe For It.
I’ve also been listening to the Matthew West Podcast and a podcast by Life Church and Pastor Craig Groeschel.
The Husband found a new podcast by Phil Rosenthal (creator of Everybody Loves Raymond) and I hope to listen to that this week.
Now it’s your turn
Now it’s your turn. What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.
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Lisa, I enjoyed catching up with your week. My wife and I are preparing to travel to Montana to spend time with family and honor one of our grandsons, who will be graduating from high school. I have been a fan of “JAG” over the years, and then my wife and I followed the spin-off series “NCIS.”
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Enjoy your time out there! Such a beautiful place (well at least the rural areas that I’ve seen!) I forgot NCIS was a spin off! I’ve never watched that one. I’ll have to check it out.
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So pretty where you live. That food is making me hungry, looks yummy. Never heard of fries like that.
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Yeah — they aren’t common fries around here – I think they just be a NJ thing (hence the name I guess. Lol).
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I agree that inheritance thing has been overdone in books and movies. That food you all had looked totally yummy. And you have to know that I need to visit that covered bridge! We had a great time with all of our kids and grands celebrating some family birthdays over the weekend. The only not fun part was the 7-hour drive each way and the gas prices, although…surprise, surprise she said sarcastically, the gas was cheaper in those two other states we drove through than here in PA.
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If you ever come this way, we will visit the bridge and have some lunch!
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That would be great!
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I’ve seen a lot of the getting inheritance after completing a task in fiction over the years and it either tends to be completely unrealistic or just makes the characters look greedy. Now inheriting some offbeat property or something and having to change your life to fit it in, well, I find that fascinating!
The restaurant looks like it’s in a really beautiful area. I’m jealous; we’re almost all out of green stuff where I live. Funny thing, my husband and I actually lived just outside of Philadelphia and I spent the two years before that commuting to the area from Maryland and we never once stopped to get cheesesteak anything. Now that I live under serious drought conditions, I’m really missing Pennsylvania, so it’s nice to look at in your photos. Glad to see it’s really looking like spring!
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Our green is just coming back and it’s been cheering us up some. Yes, the restaurant is next to one of a few covered bridges left in the state.
I don’t know about the inheritance thing and what I think other than it’s really been over done. Writers need a new angle and to stop using the same plot devices, I think … (she says knowing full well she’ll probably use a cliche plot device in her next book too.).
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Haha, it’s amazing how we as writers always fall back into the tropes and plot devices that make us cringe. I guess that’s why they always seem to be everywhere.
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Those are some nice pictures. Have a great week.
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Thanks. You too.
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