Sunday Bookends: More cold weather and switching back and forth between books

On February 16, 2025February 16, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn everyday musings, Sunday Bookends18 Comments

It’s time for our Sunday morning chat. On Sundays, I ramble about what’s been going on, what the rest of the family and I have been reading and watching, and what I’ve been writing. Some weeks I share what I am listening to.

The weather is so cold in our area that we are doing our best to conserve heating oil by dressing in layers, wrapping ourselves in blankets, and using microwavable rice packs to warm our feet and laps. This might sound dystopian to some, but I have actually been having fun with it and enjoying my little blanket nests and my warm rice packs. Check back after our planned arctic cold snap this week and see if I still see this all as an adventure. Of course, my attitude will also plan on whether or not I need to go out in the cold on any of the days that the weather is supposed to be so cold.

I talked a little about what else has been going on in our world in my Saturday Afternoon Chat yesterday.

I’ve been switching between The Tuesday Night Club (Miss Marple) by Agatha Christie and Every Living Thing by James Herriot.

I read Miss Marple during the day, usually, and James Herriot right before bed.

I am enjoying them both, but Herriot’s a bit better. Both are a collection of short stories with some connections, such as characters. I am not a huge fan of Christie’s writing style at times and this format, which involves people sitting around and telling each other stories, is a bit dry to me. The stories are good but it does get repetitive for every story to feature someone telling a story they supposedly don’t have an ending to, Miss Marple to solve the case, and then the person telling the story to go, “Actually, I do know what really happened. Let me tell you.”

It’s all a bit tedious but there are some humorous moments and quotes from Miss Marple so I am pushing through.

I also just started Nancy Drew: The Sign of the Twisted Candles by Carolyn Keene.

I am itching for a good novel after these two, which I will finish this week, so I am planning to start A Fatal Footnote by Margaret Loudon, which is a cozy mystery.

I am listening to Frankenstein while doing my dishes.

Little Miss and I are also reading Sign of the Beaver by Elizabeth George Speare.

She is reading (here and there) Harry Potter: Prisoner of Azkaban.

The Husband is reading Starter Villain by John Scalzi.

This past week The Husband and I watched the first part of Going Postal on Peacock. I watched a lot of Victorian Farm and more All Creatures Great And Small (even going back to the beginning for fun).

I also watched Angels Over Broadway from 1940.

Last week on the blog I shared:

Now It’s Your Turn!

Now it’s your turn. What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.

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Saturday Afternoon Chat: Small town newspapers and small town vets

On February 15, 2025February 15, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Saturday Afternoon Tea10 Comments

Tuesday morning, I watched my neighbor drive by my house and less than two minutes later drive back again.

He and his wife run our little county newspaper and Tuesdays are their publication day.

In a few minutes, he came back again with his white newspaper van (which we jokingly call the kidnapper van). I’m not sure if he forgot it was the day to pick up and distribute the newspapers or what, but it was somewhat funny to watch.

Their little newspaper, by the way, is not who my husband works for. Their paper is more like a community announcement paper, with little to no hard-hitting news and not even names on most of the stories. It is a beloved staple in the community because of its simple presentation and has been around for probably 100 years. My neighbor’s dad and mom owned the paper before him. His dad, Tom “Doc” Shoemaker was also the local vet and a wonderful man, as far as I know. I based a side character in my latest book on him.

In the book I share how the vet checks over Gladwynn and Lucinda’s cat and I drew on an actual experience we had with Doc Shoemaker when I was a child. My dad and I had taken one of our cats to see Doc Shoemaker because we had noticed blood in the snow when he went to the bathroom (I think that was the incident anyhow) and Doc wasn’t exactly rough, but he wasn’t exactly soothing either. He did speak to our cat — Zorro — in a fairly soothing tone but then he abruptly and quickly yanked Zorro’s tail up and inserted an old-fashioned thermometer right where the sun don’t shine.

Another time we took our pet dog to him, and he had to pull needles from a porcupine out of her snout. Poor, pup.

I have book here that Doc’s family self published and I really want to sit down and read it this spring. I think it will be a nice follow up the James Herriot book I am currently reading.

Poor cat. It was necessary though because it helped to determine that he had a UTI and needed antibiotics. Poor Zorro had bladder problems for the rest of his life, but lived until he was around 20-years-old. Longevity must be something which occurs with black cats because The Husband and I also had a black cat and she lived until she was 19.

She was so old that when we took her in at 17 the vet (not Doc Shoemaker because we were living an hour from where he had once practiced and because he was retired) asked if we had named another cat Squeek.

Squeek was my husband’s cat and I said, ‘no’ that this was the cat he’d brought in some 15 years before after rescuing her on the street. The vet tech was shocked. Even more shocked, I’m sure, when we had to bring her in two years later to have her put to sleep after she had a stroke and could no longer walk.

As I write this I have a cat and a dog staring at me from my bed.

They are not staring at me because they want me to go to bed. They are staring at me because they want me to give them a sample of coconut oil. I don’t know why but they both love coconut oil. The only coconut oil brand they seem to like though is Better Body Foods.

One time I picked up some organic coconut oil from Aldi and they wouldn’t even look at it. They literally walked away. This makes me wonder what the difference between the two coconut oils is.

So yesterday we went grocery shopping in the store for the first time in probably a year. We did this because I had tried to place an order with Instacart to Aldi for pick up but was told I could not have my order at the time I had chosen. Instead, I could have it at some point but they had no idea when. That didn’t work for me since I had other things I wanted to accomplish today and didn’t want to simply wait at home for them to tell me when I could come get my order. I have to drive 30-minutes to get to an Aldi, or any large store, so I needed an actual time.

This was all even more irritating because something similar happened last week when we were supposed to pick up our groceries at 5 on Friday, but two hours before they sent me an email and said my pickup time had been moved to the next day.

That wasn’t convenient for us at all but there was no way to contact anyone and even Instacart didn’t help because when I did a chat with them via text on their app, they said they would move the time and did. It was changed right back, however, by the staff at our local Aldi (I guess) so we had to get it on Saturday.

The reason we do pickup is because I have a couple of weird health issues where some days I feel well and other days I deal with a lightheaded and weak feeling when I do something like shop at a grocery store. No idea what it is, other than being overweight, having hypothyroidism, and getting a bit old. A friend would like me to be checked for POTS, as I do have some symptoms of that, but I have not yet asked a doctor about it. Hopefully in March.

Plus, pick up keeps us from buying extra things we don’t need and it is simply faster. I did find today, though, that there seemed to be more options available in the store than on the Instacart app.

I am not sure what we will do about pickup next week now that we’ve had two weeks of Instacart issues.

The nice thing about yesterday, though, was that The Boy, my 18-year-old son, offered to do the shopping for me. In addition to my weird health issue, I’ve also been dealing with a very sore knee (or muscle by the knee really). Luckily it is so much better but a lot of walking isn’t yet in the cards. In The Boy and Little Miss did the shopping and I helped some by walking around the store some, but not all the way around.

Little Miss has always loved helping to shop and has been very disappointed that we haven’t been able to do it lately. She even likes riding with me to get the pickup. It’s our mother-daughter time and we listen to audiobooks on the way. The Husband or my dad have been picking up our orders lately because we are currently down to one vehicle. I’m grateful we’ve been able to do the pickup as long as we have and hope that we can continue to do so.

Today we are supposed to get a freezing rain/snow mix, so we don’t have plans to go anywhere. I am sipping a cup of peppermint tea with honey and hope to spend most of the day reading.

Tomorrow we will be visiting my parents for a late Valentine’s Day lunch.

The upcoming week is going to be very, very cold so we probably won’t be going out much but I would really love to get to the local library at least one day. I am hoping that maybe Dad will need to take a trip out here to our tiny town for something and can give us a ride. I would love to be able to walk downtown to the library but…the aforementioned knee issue and right now absolutely freezing cold.

How was your week this past week? Did you do anything exciting? Or did you simply have a nice, relaxing week?

Sunday Bookends: Is that a gunshot or is the wood on my porch just cracking in the cold?

On February 2, 2025February 2, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Sunday Bookends11 Comments

Welcome to my Sunday Chat where I ramble about what’s been going on in my world, what the rest of the family and I have been reading, watching, listening to, and what I’ve been writing.

Last week our weather started to warm up after two weeks or more of nasty cold. That meant going outside didn’t feel so daunting. We still didn’t go too many places because we are currently down to one car and because – well, it is still winter and we don’t have a ton of motivation to go anywhere.

We all have some cabin fever, though, so we will need to leave the house soon.

Hopefully, we can get to the library or somewhere else for fun next week.

It still doesn’t want to warm up, though, as proven by the horribly cold temps from last night and how our back porch, once again, couldn’t handle it and popped like a gunshot. This has been happening a lot this winter. When the temps drop below —say 15 — the wood on our porch contracts and it sounds like a gunshot, making us jump inside the house.

This time, though, I was walking on the porch, last night, heading to the driveway to move our car. If I hadn’t heard this exact thing happen from inside the house all winter long I might have thought I had been shot. I took another step and it fired off again and it was crazy how loud it was. I actually messaged our next door neighbor to let her know what had happened so she didn’t think we were next door shooting each other.

I rambled about what went on last week in my Saturday Afternoon Chat post.

I am determined to finish Christy by Catherine Marshall this weekend, possibly today. The book is very good, but so long. I think it could have been split into two books, really. There is so much information in it and so many more stories about the people in this rural area of the Smokie Mountains of Tennessee that could have been told. This is not a complaint, by the way. I love the book, and I would have loved if there had been more stories from it.

I am still reading the oral biography of Anthony Bourdain and while it was a little uninteresting at first, it is picking up and capturing my attention, especially as we move toward when Kitchen Confidential came out and he began to become more famous. I am absolutely dreading the end of the book, of course.

This week I hope to listen to Frankenstein on audio. I keep saying I am going to start it and I truly am this week. As I mentioned before, it is being read by Dan Stevens.

I haven’t done great with the books I planned to read for this winter. I have read five of the 17 books I had initially listed as books I would choose from December through March . I substituted some of the books on the list with other reads that caught my eye instead. For example, I was going to read World Travel by Anthony Bourdain but instead chose the oral biography of Anthony Bourdain because my husband read it and said it was good.

I would still love to finish Little Men and The Thursday Murder Club …we will see how that goes.

Little Miss is reading Harry Potter: Prisoner of Azkaban. We are also reading The Sign of the Beaver together for school.

The Husband is reading the latest book by Bob Woodward. He just finished Up Country by Nelson Demille.

Last week I watched The Young In Heart with Douglas Fairbanks Jr. and loved it.

I also watched a new episode of All Creatures Great and Small and several episodes of Edwardian Farm.

As I was preparing Douglas Fairbanks Jr. gifs to use to make memes for Instagram this week, I found it funny that a Paul Newman gif popped up without me even looking for it. See, I love Paul Newman and have always called him my old-time actor crush, but lately Douglas has been replacing him. I guess Paul didn’t want me to forget him, so he popped a gif of himself in there. (Disclaimer: This is a joke. I do not actually believe Paul Newman is speaking to me from the grave.)

Gladwynn Grant Shakes the Family Tree will be out soon and I hope to start writing the fourth book in the series later this month. I’m so excited for both!

Last week on the blog I shared:

I am going to be listening to Frankenstein this week. I swear. I totally am.

Now it’s your turn. What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.

This post is linked up with The Sunday Post at Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, Stacking the Shelves with Reading Reality, The Sunday Salon with Deb at Readerbuzz, and Book Date: It’s Monday! What are you reading hosted by Kathyrn at The Book Date.

Saturday Afternoon Chat: Staying warm in the winter in the 80s and an unusual cure for my knee pain

On February 1, 2025February 1, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Saturday Afternoon Tea7 Comments

Good Saturday afternoon! As I write this I am actually sipping grape juice instead of my regular morning tea, but I am going to go grab some tea in a moment. I have not tried any new tea flavors. I know. So boring. How about you? Any new tea flavors?

During our horrible cold snap last week, I was warming my rice pack and carrying it to bed with me each night, shoving it under the covers to warm the bottom of the bed up for my feet.

It reminded me of when I was a child, living in a drafty old 19^th century home with a radiator that liked to conk out at the wrong times.

My parents would fill a plastic bottle with hot water, wrap it in a towel, and put it at the bottom of the bed to warm the sheets before I crawled into bed. I was also covered with several blankets, one of them a woolen one that we eventually figured out I was allergic to because I would itch terribly under it. Some nights I would be so cold I would wake up hugging the water bottle and seeing my breath in the air.

Luckily that wasn’t common — only on absolutely freezing nights and when that old radiator in my room really acted up. If it was too cold, we all slept downstairs in our living room, sheets hanging over the doorways to keep the heat in one room.

When I was in my room, I’d also pile all of my stuffed animals around me until I could barely be seen under them.

It was almost as cold as that old house in our old early 20^th century home last week, but we are lucky to have both heat from our woodstove and heating oil downstairs. We have electric heat upstairs. Even with all three different types of heat we had a hard time chasing away the near zero temps.

A fellow blogger asked me last week why we have three sources of heat and my only answer is that this is how this house was built. For whatever reason.

The downstairs is heated by the furnace that runs on heating oil, but someone also installed a woodstove over the years. This allows for the thermostat to be turned down and save some of the heating oil throughout the winter. Heat from the woodstove can, and often does, travel up the stairwell and spread into the bedrooms, which means we don’t have to turn the electric heat up too much some nights.

The three sources of heat help us to spread out our costs over the winter months. Sometimes, though, like the week before last’s horrible arctic cold, the costs of all three increase.

We’ve had two firewood deliveries this year. Using a woodstove was something very new for me when we moved into the house five years ago. I’d never lit a woodstove in my life and figuring out how to burn the wood slowly and keep it going throughout the night was a challenge.

At first I wouldn’t even dare to attempt letting the fire burn all night. I was certain it would somehow catch the house on fire, which I now know is ridiculous with how the stove is set up. My dad was worried about the woodstove’s pipe, which he didn’t think was installed right. We found after he hired someone to fix it that he was right and we could have had a fire inside the wall if we hadn’t had it fixed.

I also made The Husband purchase carbon monoxide detectors to make sure we wouldn’t be gassed at night if there was ever a leak of some kind.

I didn’t even know how that all worked but I knew carbon monoxide detectors were important. We had them when we had natural gas at our old house too.

Even though we’ve learned a lot about how to conserve our wood during the coldest months of the years, we still went through a lot this winter and still might need one more delivery to make it through the rest of the winter. We’ve been known to have snow storms in March here in Pennsylvania so we never exactly know when we will be lighting out last fire.

I find the last time we light the fire both exciting and sad. Exciting because I don’t have to clean the ash out in the mornings or work on lighting it or make sure it doesn’t die during the day and evening. Sad because I do love a cold winter night with a warm fire lit in the stove, a book open on my lap, a cat sprawled in front of the fire, another cat curled up on the ottoman and a sleeping dog on our broken recliner. Somehow the room seems much cozier and maybe even more alive with those flames flickering through the glass of the stove.

Switching gears a bit — Right after New Year’s I developed an issue with my knee and thought I might have to have an x-ray at one point. One night before bed I rubbed magnesium oil on it in addition to ibuprofen. My knee hurt the most when I lay on my side for some reason, so I figured it might be a muscle issue. I still had some pain overnight after using the magnesium oil spray, but in the morning, I used spray again and the rest of that day the knee felt much better. I was surprised by this development and decided to skip the ibuprofen or Tylenol I had been taking for weeks. The knee felt better for the next two days, and I was able to stop using a cane to get around the house.

I have had to use pain killers twice since then, but so far, so good. Apparently, the muscle around my knee simply needed to relax some and the magnesium helped facilitate that. I like to use natural remedies whenever I can but, in this case, I didn’t think a natural remedy would help. A CBD rub on stick was helping some as well, but the magnesium oil was the actual game changer.

Today I hope to go to my parents and help clean a little bit, visit with them, have some supper, and maybe play a game of intense Uno.

Tomorrow, we might visit them again.

The upcoming week is empty of any appointments or events, so far, other than Little Miss’s children’s club at a local church.

How was your week last week? Do anything exciting? How does this week look for you?

Tomorrow I’ll be back to talk about what I’ve been reading and watching, etc. with my Sunday Bookends post.

Sunday Bookends: It’s cold. No. Really cold. Reading the same books but planning for others. Crafternoon Again! And some podcasts I want to listen to.

On January 19, 2025January 19, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn everyday musings, Sunday Bookends25 Comments

Due to the illness of children or the cold of the northeast I have not left my house in two weeks and though I am a homebody, I must admit it is becoming a little depressing.

And based on the fact I feel like I am starting to get sick and dangerously cold temps are set to hit the area Monday through Wednesday this week, I have a feeling I will be in my house at least another week. At this point I’ve told my parents, who only live seven minutes from us, that I might not see them until after the spring thaw.

Our house is located on a hill, has a steep driveway, and we are down to one car, so that also makes winter travel difficult.

Yesterday I was alone for much of the day because Little Miss was at a friend’s house and The Boy was sick upstairs, while The Husband was at work. This was a strange situation for me because I’m rarely alone. I didn’t know what to do with myself. I eventually decided to work on a blog post (the second part to my Civil War letters posts), start watching Gunga Din, and read a chapter in my Agatha Christie book. I also was very brave and went out into the cold darkness of our backyard to retrieve a couple pieces of wood for our woodstove.

Then it was back inside where I realized I should cook some dinner for me and The Boy.

He’s had a horrible headache and watery eyes and no appetite, but he was finally able to eat a little bit around the time the mom of Little Miss’s friend brought her back home.

Today we are seeing how the weather is since we were supposed to get a snow storm but now it looks like it’s moved further east (I see you Poconos and NJ…good luck!) and I might visit my parents or … again…tell them I’ll see them in the spring thaw.

Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday are bringing temps where we are expected only to reach about 11 as a high. Lows will be below zero due to windchill and other factors. I asked The Husband to bring some wood from our pile behind the garage into our laundry room so we don’t have to go out into the bitter cold to replenish the supply we have in our living room by the stove.

We do have some heating oil but do our best to use as little of that as we can because of how expensive it has been the last couple of years.

A quick reminder that we are having another Crafternoon Zoom Call next Sunday (the 26th) at 1 p.m. If you are interested in being a part of it, you can email me at lisahoweler@gmail.com or Erin (from Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs) at crackercrumbs@gmail.com.

If you don’t know what that is – it is where we all get together and chat together while doing crafts or other projects. We’d love to have you join us and stave off the gloom that can come with winter sometimes.

With all this cold and being trapped inside a lot you would think I would have plenty of time for reading and I do, but I also have other projects I am working on, so alas, this will not be an exciting section, because I am still reading the same books.

Christy by Catherine Marshall is a super long book and so I am taking breaks and reading A Body in the Library by Agatha Christie (do I really need to type her last name?) for something “lighter”.

I also hope to get back to Bourdain: The Definitive Oral Biography by Laurie Woolever this week.

If you are not aware of what Christy is here is a description:

The train taking nineteen-year-old teacher Christy Huddleston from her home in Asheville, North Carolina, might as well be transporting her to another world. The Smoky Mountain community of Cutter Gap feels suspended in time, trapped by poverty, superstitions, and century-old traditions. But as Christy struggles to find acceptance in her new home, some see her — and her one-room school — as a threat to their way of life. Her faith is challenged and her heart is torn between two strong men with conflicting views about how to care for the families of the Cove. Yearning to make a difference, will Christy’s determination and devotion be enough?

After these books I have a couple of books I want to get to including Frankenstein by Mary Shelly (for English with The Boy) and Miss Morgan’s Book Brigade by Janet Skieslen Charles, but I also want to read a Nancy Drew. Oh my gosh! Why does there have to be so many good books out there to read?!

Little Miss and I are reading The Sign of The Beaver by Elizabeth George Speare for school and listening to Peter Pan by J.M. Barie at night.

The Boy will be starting Frankenstein this week.

The Husband is reading The Rum Diary by Hunter S. Thompson.

(For anyone new, The Husband is just a joke nickname for my husband since he jokingly calls our son “The Boy”.)

This week I’ve watched three old movies I had never seen before — The Prisoner of Zenda, which I wrote about on the blog, The Stranger, and Gunga Din. I’ll be writing blog posts The Stranger and Gunga Din soon.

I also watched the first episode of season five of All Creatures Great and Small and am so excited that it is back for another season. I can’t wait to see Tristan again.

I watched a few episodes of my favorite YouTuber farmer, Just A Few Acres Farm, while I waited for him to release a new episode.

The Advanced Readers Copies of Gladwynn Grant Shakes the Family Tree have been sent out to my advanced readers. I pushed back the release date to give them some time to read the book and me some time to tie up some loose ends.

It is available for pre-order here:

I am working on a monthly writing update and some movie impression posts for my Substack, which people can subscribe to for free or pay about $3 a month to receive exclusive posts I plan to offer in 2025.

This week on Substack I shared:

|| Classic Movie Impressions: The Ghost and Mrs. Muir ||

This week on this blog I shared:

Podcast I listen to daily:

Our Miss Brooks – rebroadcasts of the old radio show. I listen to these as I go to sleep.

Podcasts I am occasionally listening to because I don’t seem to just put them on since I am doing other stuff:

Little House 50 for 50

Pop Culture Preservation Society

True Drew: A Podcast for All Things Nancy Drew

Podcasts I want to listen to this year:

The Matthew West Podcast

The Life Without School

Lisa Harper’s Back Porch Theology

Now It’s Your Turn

What have you been doing, readin’, watchin’, and listenin’ to this past week? Let me know in the comments!

Sunday Chat: Octagenarian birthdays, starting my 2025 reads, and podcasts I recommend

On January 5, 2025January 5, 2025 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Sunday Bookends, Sunday Salon12 Comments

Today is my dad’s 81^st birthday. We had a family dinner for him yesterday when my brother could visit and will probably have another lunch together with the kids and I today.

We had ham and bean soup yesterday and today we will eat some sausage balls I plan to make in memory of my aunt Dianne, as well a beef roast.

Last night we played a game of Uno that got a little crazy and felt like it might ever end. We ended up laughing and shaking our heads at how long it seemed to be going on.

This upcoming week we have nowhere to go which is fine with me because homeschool has to get back under way first thing tomorrow. Ha. First thing. Yeah right. It will probably be afternoon before we do anything, but it sounds better if I write “first thing.”

Having an easy-going week is something I am looking forward to after a pretty nuts Christmas break. The Husband was in the ER and diagnosed with Diabetes a few days before Christmas, so it’s been a period of adjustment and him not feeling well. He slept or rested most the break, which he needed and I’m glad he wasn’t working when this all hit.

I also injured my knee by – I don’t know how actually. By rolling over in bed or something. Who even knows.

So far we have not caught any of the various illnesses going around but I know our time is coming and I’m pretty worried about that happening.

I’m reading Christy by Catherine Marshall and really enjoying it. I loved the show that was based on it and aired on CBS in the 1990s and the book is fairly close to it from what I can see so far.

The book is a fictional book very loosely based on the life story of Marshall’s mother, if you’ve never heard of it. The main character travels to a very remote area in the Smokey Mountains of North Carolina in the early 1900s to become a teacher at a missionary school.

As a young, inexperienced woman she is for a rude awakening but also an amazing experience of learning about the determination of the people who live in the mountains.

Upcoming books for me:

I have three Nancy Drew books coming in the mail from Thriftbooks and hope to read at least one of those after Christy.
World Travel: An Irreverent Guide by Anthony Bourdain and Laurie Woolever
Little Men by Louisa May Alcott
The Two Towers by JRR Tolkien

Little Miss finished Harry Potter Chamber of Secrets yesterday while reading at her grandparents. She even made us wait for our game of Uno so she could finish the book. I’m very proud of her for reading the first two books. She was bothered by some of the violence in the end of the Chamber of Secrets so says she will be taking a break before she decides if she want to read book three.

The Boy and I will be starting Frankenstein soon, which he’s looking forward to a lot more than me. If you know anything about what I read, Frankenstein isn’t my normal read. We are reading through British literature this year and he likes the story of Frankenstein so we will go for it.

After that I’ll be having him read some Agatha Christie so that will be more up my alley.

The Husband is reading Bourdain The Definitive Oral Biography by Laurie Woolever.

This past week I watched The Power of the Press, a 1928 silent movie starring Douglas Fairbanks Jr., Morning Glory, a 1933 movie starring Fairbanks Jr. and Katherine Hepburn, a few episodes of No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain, and videos by Booktubers preparing their 2025 reading journals.

I enjoyed this video by Plant Based Bride. It scratched some sort of crafty itchy for me, but I don’t think I’ll ever be as detailed or organized in my reading journal.

I also watched A Victorian Farm: A Victorian Christmas this past week and am now starting A Tudor Farm.

I am finishing up corrections to Gladwynn Grant Shakes The Family Tree and started a Patreon, which you can subscribe to here if you’d like a sneak peek of the book.

Last week on the blog I shared:

Sunday Chat: A nice, calm Christmas, getting ready for the first book of 2025, and join us for a cozy crafternoon

On December 29, 2024December 29, 2024 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Sunday Bookends24 Comments

Welcome to my Sunday Chat where I ramble about what’s been going on in my world, what the rest of the family and I have been reading, watching, listening to, and what I’ve been writing.

This week I’m joining up with Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, Deb at Readerbuzz, and Kathyrn at The Book Date.

“Let’s just use paper plates for Christmas dinner,” I told my mom.

We’ve had a lot going on and some members of the family haven’t been feeling well from couple different health issues.

Plus it was only the six of us so there was no need for anything fancy.

I heard a small “uh-huh..” on the other end of the phone and figured she was agreeing with me. The next day, though, The Husband, kids and I walked into a kitchen that had been set with a Christmas tablecloth and very fancy plates and goblets.

“These were my Mama’s,” Mom said of the plates. “And we thought we better get them out now because we might never have a chance to use them again.”

I figured that might be their dark humor since they are in their 80s and often say odd things like this to us.

Mom said she actually meant because we might not want to take the time to drag them out again. I added that we might not want to take the chance of them getting broken since I am quite a klutz.

The plates, by the way, were made in Baveria and were a gift of some kind to my grandfather when he used to work for Pepsi Co. That was probably 50 years ago.

The crystal glasses were gifts to my parents on their wedding day. They’ve been married 60 years.

There were also a set of glass water glasses that belonged to my paternal grandmother.

Somehow, we made it through dinner without breaking anything. My husband also made it through washing the plates without breaking anything.

After dinner we had a quick gift opening session that was quite quick this year since we were all broke. *snort* It was a nice time, though, and it was preceded by the reading from the Bible of the Christmas story, which we do every year.

Our family had a lot to celebrate this year.

My sister-in-law, who had been in the hospital for an entire month for heart issues, came home on Christmas Eve. She was/is still dealing with a Norovirus she caught while there and will have lot of new routines she’ll need to do for her condition, but she is home.

The Husband has been dealing with a health issue which could have been so much worse but has been caught and is being treated now and we are very, very thankful for that.

Money is tight right now, but we were all together and found a lot of time to watch movies and simply have fun.

It was a cold week and that was nice in some ways because it meant we had the white Christmas Little Miss had wanted.

We have electric heat upstairs and downstairs we have heating oil and a wood stove.

Thursday we didn’t light the fire because we simply didn’t get to it, and it was a reminder how well it helps to heat the rest of the house when we have it lit because I had to put four blankets on me to get warm that night. I had also taken a shower right before bed and my hair was wet so that, and the fact I’d forgotten to turn on the electric heat upstairs didn’t help at all. The fire was definitely lit Friday, but we didn’t have to light it last night because we are having a small warm up this weekend with temps in the 40s and 50s.

This weekend we have been relaxing and enjoying our time together since The Husband is off work until the week after next and The Boy doesn’t have to return to tech school until Thursday.

We hope to see the Christmas lights at a local golf course Monday if it doesn’t get rained out.

I will finish Shepherd’s Abiding by Jan Karon’s today or tomorrow and that will be my final book of the year. My first book of 2025 will be Christy by Catherine Marshall, which I have already started and am really enjoying.

It is a book based very loosely on the life of Marshall’s mother and takes place in the early 1900s.

This past week I finished Tooth and Claw by Craig Johnson – a novella part of the Walt Longmire series.

I kept trying to read Shepherd’s Abiding to keep with the Christmas spirt, but I kept going back to Tooth and Claw to see if Walt and Henry got away from the psycho polar bear.

Little Miss is very close to the end of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets.

The Husband is reading World Traveler by Anthony Bourdain which is also on my TBR.

I watched a lot of Christmas movies or Christmas-related shows last week including

The Christmas episode of The Dick VanDyke Show

Christmas in the Smokies

A ton of Mary Berry episodes

The Christmas episode of All Creatures Great and Small

Jingle All the Way

The Last Holiday

Then I also watched the North and South mini-series. Good grief..that was depressing in many ways. Then I watched another depressing film called Me Before You.

The Husband and I also watched Hombre – again depressing, but Paul Newman was in it so that was good.

I watched a lot of Murder She Wrote one day as well.

I will hopefully watch some more uplifting movies and shows this week.

I’m editing Gladwynn Grant Shakes the Family Tree and brainstorming ideas for the fourth Gladwynn Grant book. You can pre-order Gladwynn Shakes the Family Tree (a cozy mystery) here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0DR6BG3ZR?

Last week on the blog I shared:

I also wanted to offer a quick thank you to everyone who took part in our Comfy, Cozy Christmas link up. That was so much fun. You can still add posts or just read the ones that are already there at this link: https://lisahoweler.com/comfy-cozy-christmas-2024/

A quick reminder for January plans for this blog and Erin with Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs.

Erin and I are planning some Cozy Crafternoons on Zoom in January and February to try to beat those winter blahs that happen after Christmas. The plans for now are two a month.

We will just all meet up on the date and time, and individually work on whatever we want – embroidery, coloring, knitting, crocheting, jewelry making, etc, while chatting.

Erin says she will be embroidering during the session. I might be writing, drawing, or editing photos.

If you are interested in learning more send an email either to me at lisahoweler@gmail.com or to Erin at crackercrumblife@gmail.com. That way we will have your email for the zoom link! Our first scheduled crafternoon is January 11th at 1 pm EST.

Now it’s your turn. What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.

Sunday Chat: Merry Christmas, Christmas movies, and looks like we will have a white Christmas afterall

On December 21, 2024December 28, 2024 By Lisa R. HowelerIn Sunday Bookends12 Comments

As always, I’m joining up with Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, Deb at Readerbuzz, and Kathyrn at The Book Date.

I live in an area where we get a lot of snow during the winter – or at least enough to make the roads slippery. I have lived in this area my whole life but I am still not a fan of driving in snow. It makes me very nervous and when I am done doing it my entire body hurts from tensing all my muscles.

I avoid it whenever I can but twice this week, I ended up driving in potentially slippery conditions. On Wednesday I drove home in snow after taking my daughter to Kid’s Club, which is a weekly kid’s program at a church about 20 minutes from our house. Listening to an audiobook of Johnny Tremain helped keep me distracted from being worried we might careen off the road into an embankment, especially when the snow started to stick to the road about five miles from our house.

I recorded a quick video while I was driving slowly, and it was so funny because the audiobook didn’t stop playing as I recorded and when I played it back the woman’s sort of creepy voice was talking about the many deaths that happened during the Revolutionary War while the snow swirled in front of us. (If you push play be aware it is very loud!)

We made it home and I vowed not to do it again but on Friday my dad needed to go to an MRI and I needed to pick up groceries. We knew we were supposed to get snow but we weren’t sure how much, so we headed out anyhow. This was after I got my dad’s car stuck twice earlier in the day. I’m borrowing his car while our truck is broke down.

I kept my hands tight around the steering wheel on the way to where we get groceries while we got stuck behind a long line of cars due to a very slow truck and a shiny sheen showed up on the road.

That’s when Dad decides to remind me not to get too close to the car in front of me because I don’t want to have to slam on the brakes and possibly skid across the road since the temp had dropped to 29 degrees. That’s always fun in winter by the way – watching the thermometer on your car drop below freezing and wonder if that’s going to be cold enough to freeze the road as well or if it was warm enough that the road hasn’t had a chance to freeze yet. This is something those who don’t live in colder climates have to worry about.

So, on Friday, for 15 miles, I had to make sure I stayed back and stayed calm while Dad reminded me gently that I was too close to cars. He made me a bit nervous so I made him drive home and guess what – he pulled up too close to cars and didn’t slow down at all. Why that hypocrite. *wink* Honestly, he’s a pretty good driver but it was nice to harass him a bit by telling him he was too close to the cars in front of us.

Once we were home, though, I decided we won’t be leaving the house again until Christmas Eve when we will head to my parents for the evening and then head back again on Christmas Day.

The Husband does have to go to work today and Monday but then he is off for a week and we are looking forward to him having that time.

We did receive a few inches of snow on Friday and with today’s artic temps and still cold temps the next few days, it looks like we will have our white Christmas after all.

Our family has a lot to be grateful for this Christmas. The month of December has been a beast – beating my family down physically, emotionally, and sometimes even spiritually. Through it all it has been tough to be upbeat but as I write this I am grateful for miracles – for surgeries that won’t have to happen, for medical conditions caught quickly and didn’t cause more damage than they could have, and for healing that is slowly coming.

It isn’t always easy to be happy at Christmas and I just want anyone who isn’t celebrating this Christmas, for whatever reason, that it’s okay. You feel the way you feel and if you don’t feel cheerful, then you don’t. Christmas is something we can celebrate at any time of the year because of why we celebrate. I’m hoping many of us have better days to come.

I had planned to read all Christmas books leading up to Christmas and I did read a couple but didn’t fill all of my reads up with Christmas.

I finished The Hound of The Baskerville’s by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle.

I finished The Christmas Swap by Melody Carlson this past week. I did not enjoy it as much as A Quilt for Christmas and it honestly felt like a completely different writer.

I then finished Johnny Tremain which Little Miss and I have been reading all school year for history (in between other lessons).

That brought my book total read for the year to 66 and as I told friends and family – that is too close to 666 in my head (not the number counting up…but you know what I mean) so I am reading Tooth and Claw by Craig Johnson to bring it to 67.

After Tooth and Claw I am diving back into Christy by Catherine Marshall and starting either Castles in the Air by Donald Westlake (which my husband recommended) or Little Men.

The Husband is reading The Midnight Library by Matt Haig and that will be his 115^th book of the year.

The Boy is supposed to be finishing The Hound of the Baskerville’s this week.

Little Miss is reading Harry Potter and The Chamber of Secrets.

We have been cramming as many Christmas movies or Christmas-themed shows we can fit in before Christmas.

This past week we watched Miracle on 34^th Street (my husband’s favorite), Elf, Home Alone, and White Christmas.

On my own I watched The Bishop’s Wife and The Chosen special The Messenger.

We still want to watch Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer, A Christmas Story, and Santa Claus is Coming to Town. I also hope to watch past Christmas episodes of All Creatures Great and Small since I don’t have streaming that allows me to watch the latest season yet.

I am still finishing corrections on Gladwynn Grant Shakes the Family Tree, which you can now pre-order on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0DR6BG3ZR?

This week on the blog I shared:

A quick reminder for January plans for this blog and Erin with Still Life, With Cracker Crumbs. I’m going to copy what she has been posting on her blog because I am behind this week!

“Lisa from Boondock Ramblings and I are planning some Cozy Crafternoons on Zoom in January and February, to beat those winter blahs that happen late winter after Christmas. We are thinking we will have maybe two per month, so four in total. We will just all meet up on the date and time, and individually work on whatever we want – embroidery, coloring, knitting, crocheting, jewelry making, etc, while chatting or you could even have the sound off and just feel part of the group without the chatter, if you like it quiet. It is sort of open and flexible but also social. I will probably be stitching away – my friend has requested a small pillow with an embroidered possum on it, so I will be working on that in January for a while. Anyway, if you are interested in learning more send an email either to me at crackercrumblife@gmail.com or to Lisa at lisahoweler@gmail.com. That way we will also have your email for the zoom link! Our first scheduled crafternoon is January 11th at 1 pm EST.”

Now it’s your turn. What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.

Sunday Chat: Winter weather, Christmas events, Christmas movies, and a dud mystery book

On December 15, 2024December 15, 2024 By Lisa R. HowelerIn everyday musings, Sunday Bookends27 Comments

This week I’m joining up with Kimba at Caffeinated Reviewer, Deb at Readerbuzz, and Kathyrn at The Book Date.

It is hard for me to explain to people from larger, more urban areas just how small the little town I live in is. Sometimes numbers help – there are about 400 people in my town, 6,000 total in the entire county, and then in the summer the numbers go up some as visitors from the city come up to stay in cabins in the county. There is one elementary school and one high school for the entire county and it’s all located in one town – which is the county seat.

When there are events in our tiny town it’s not always very exciting and there isn’t always a lot to see, but the organizations and business owners try their best.

Yesterday there was a book sale at the local library for the town Christmas festival, and I went but was a bit disappointed in the selection this year. It was not their fault at all – there just wasn’t a lot of books that interested me this time around — yet I somehow still managed to come home with about 11.

There was also a strange but sort of funny exchange with the library director before I left about library bags and if I wanted one. I think I was misunderstanding the man but when he put the books I bought in a bag he said something about how they usually only use those bags for library books when they are taken out. He said they had boxes for people to carry books in from the sale. I asked him if he wanted me to take a box instead and he said, “Oh, no, we should be good with bags right now. We just got an order of 400 in.”

If they just got 400 in I’m not sure why he was telling me they don’t usually use the books for the sale, but thinking back, maybe he was simply sharing about how they don’t usually use them but decided to on that day because they had just received an order for them. I have no idea but I have to admit that later in the day I felt guilty that I had taken one of their bags. Yes, those are the kind of thoughts that pop into my mind when other people wouldn’t have given it a second thought the rest of the day.

I was very excited to find a copy of The Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman since I have been interested in reading that for a while now.

I also picked up a copy of The Scarlet Pimpernel, which I have wanted to read after seeing a movie based on it years ago.

Jimmy Stewart and His Poems is a book I’ll have fun reading this winter, I think. It shouldn’t take me long. It’s very short.

I also picked up two mass-market editions of The Two Towers and The Return of the King from the Lord of the Rings trilogy so I can easily slide The Two Towers in my purse when I start to read it later this winter.

The “winter festival” is capped off by a very short, very cold Christmas parade each year. The “festival” was supposed to feature vendors and S’mores stations but there ended up being one tiny S’mores station and no craft vendors — unless they were tucked away in one of the other buildings in town.

We skipped the parade because we tried to go to it two years ago and it was so cold that I couldn’t feel my fingers. I also couldn’t breathe because the cold triggered my asthma – or whatever it is I have that makes breathing in the cold very difficult for me.

Last week our temps were in the low 50s one day and next week will be the same but yesterday our high was 30 and it was in the low 20s when it was time for the parade.

No, thank you.

We are down to one car right now so we don’t go many places during the week but on Fridays Little Miss and I travel to get groceries. With the weather being so cold we don’t do much other than pick up our pick up order and come back home, stopping at my parents on the way through to drop off a few groceries we pick up for them.

We did that this Friday, and it was a fairly uneventful trip. We were glad to get back to the house and enjoy the fire in the woodstove and the Christmas tree we decorated a couple of weeks ago.

I’m really hoping to sit by that tree and read a Christmas short story or two later this week.

Our upcoming homeschooling week is going to be fairly laid back with Christmas-themed crafts and baking and vintage Christmas stories heavily mixed into regular, scaled-back lessons.

This week I finished Death Comes to Marlow by Robert Thorogood and was very disappointed in it. It was repetitive and dragged quite a bit. I had high hopes for it and thought I might continue the series but now I am not so sure.

I continued The Hound of The Baskerville’s by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle and will most likely finish it this week.

I abandoned one of my planned Christmas reads because it was deeply depressing. Instead, I continued to read Christy by Catherine Marshall, which I am borrowing on my Kindle through Libby.

I might sneak in a last Christmas novella, The Christmas Swap by Melody Carlson, before Christmas. I’ll see if I make it that far since I am also in the middle of making corrections to Gladwynn Grant Shakes the Family Tree (releasing sometime in early 2025).

Little Miss hasn’t been reading much of Harry Potter, but I figure she will pick it up again later this week. The Boy is listening to The Hound of the Baskerville’s for English/British Literature.

I forgot to ask The Husband what he is reading but I know he’s read 113 books this year.

This past week I watched two Hallmark movies and then an older Hallmark movie that is one of the best ones I’ve ever seen — Trading Christmas (I wrote about it in this post from last year.)

We also watched a classic Christmas with Garfield from the 1980s and half of A Miracle on 34^th Street, which we will hopefully finish tonight.

This week I hope to watch The Christmas Candle this week and other Christmas-related shows or movies.

I am currently working on edits to Gladwynn Grant Shakes The Family Tree. I hate edits – or fixing the manuscript after it’s been given back to me by editors and beta readers. It’s so tedious. But once it is done, I’ll be able to release the book and add it to the other two.

This week on the blog I shared:

|| Little Lord Fauntleroy Marathon by Cat’s Wire ||

|| A Fall Hike in Turkey Run State Park by Amy’s Creative Pursuits ||

|| Gingerbread Candy Kitchen and Hutch by Debbie Dabble Christmas ||

|| Peace on Earth, Second Sunday of Advent by Big Sky Buckeye ||

Don’t forget that Erin and I are hosting the Comfy, Cozy Christmas link-up, which you can find at the top of the page. The link-up is for any holiday-related posts.

Now it’s your turn!

What have you been doing, watching, reading, listening to or writing? Let me know in the comments or leave a blog post link if you also write a weekly update like this.

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